"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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It means they don't need a man/men.
 

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wtf does this even mean?? lol.
It means absolutely nothing.
 

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Strong women do not exist , they are a myth like unicorns.An invention of the liberals.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Strong Woman = Brainwashed by the media and therefore arrogant, entitled, and stuck in a fantasy world that is beyond her ability to be aware of.

The only thing that can rescue some of them is aging and/or catastrophic life events. I repeat, some of them.

It seems that as women age they lose their femininity and start thinking in a SOMEWHAT more balanced way and start to understand the reality of nature. Life generally has to beat the sh!t out of them until they come around.
 

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It means she lifts.
 

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I actually like strong women for some reason (mentally/psychologically speaking). They have this very forward thinking attitude and tend to be very sure of themselves and they usually make it a challenge to get anywhere with them.

The real trick though is to find a woman who knows when to lay off this and let the man take the lead. A lot of women who are like this don't know when to take the proper role a woman is supposed to be in a relationship; they continue to think it's all about trying to dominate over the man and they continue to lose out time and again and they can't figure out why.

Just an FYI of what I've experienced and been through and hopefully it can save you some frustration.
 

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She's a strong woman full of sass, juggling a child and a high powered paper shuffling cubicle career..2 days a week, but behind that icy exterior lies a heart of gold.


Deal with it bigots !


...a child she left the father of so she could collect child support and get new d|ck, and a high powered paper shuffling cubicle career she obtained by sucking said d|ck. She is "strong" because she "has it all together"!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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