"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Stroking a wet glass? Flirt.

PapiChulo

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I ve been observing a girl for awhile and she does all this textbook flirting, i.e. playing with hair, hair toss,eye-contact, etc. This time when I was chatting she has a wet glass and starts to stroke it gently up and down, up and down - almost sexually, so I could not help it but to notice.

To me it's a phallic object, and it seems to mean she wants to get it on. Agree? That's unless she's bored (not really he he).
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I was at the state fair a few weeks ago and this girl walking behind us was eating a nut chocolate covered banana on a stick. I was like wtf!! There's people every kids, families.. What kind of message are you trying to tell everyone.
 

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This one time at bandcamp this girl picked up a flute and then put it to her mouth, even though i was one of the 50 people in the audience, i think it was a major indicator that she wants to get in my pants.
 

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disregard these two fgts above me. A girl playing w her harid and strong eye contact is definitely IOI by itself. Just ask her out and find out...only way to know for sure.
 

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Whats up with all the trolls?


I ve looked into that, and its a major IOI, that entails teasing and sexual tension.


I ve seen women do the hair twirl just for the sake of flirt, without any particular interest.
Apparently, these so-called protean flirt signals dont really mean interest, its rather that he or she is trying to decide whether they are interested. In this case, she does it with many guys.

And the glass thing is a sexual tease, i.e. having naughty thoughts about this particular person, hence its so bloody obvious.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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