"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Strippers

jimjam

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Anyone ever get a private dance with a stripper? Thinking about doing this. What's your take on it? Rip off? Too skanky? At risk for disease? Worth it?

Some of these chicks are cute, but I'm leeery about disease and parting with $100 for a bj. I also don't believe this sets a good example for my 5 yr old son.

No luck with traditional routes lately.

Advice?.....

Thanks
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Willard

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I was in Key West a few months ago. First she gave me a massage, then she asked If I wanted a dance, I said only if I can suck her boobs during the dance, she said not for the price of a dance, which is $25, I asked how much, she said $35. I sucked her boobs and she played with my unit through my pants, then I asked if I could see her *****, she bent over and spread it open for me. I said I really want to eat your *****, she said we can't do it here but for $40 we can do it after her shift.

We exchanged numbers, but I was too drunk that night to bother. I'm sure full sex and a BJ were available for a $100 or so. She texted me a couple of days later but Key West is 3 hours from me.

It's definitely available if you play your cards right. I prefer escorts but If I'm at a strip club it's cool. I don't have any fear of disease from escorts or strippers, they usually have better hygiene girls from bars and clubs.
 

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If you are looking to have sex, you would do better to just use Backpage.com and get a paid escort, unless the stripper also is an escort on the side which of course you could get her to do the escort procedure. Make sure to Google the girl in question, if you can't find any reviews on her, other information on her, you can't find her telephone number attached to her, etc., then don't go see her as she's most likely a fake profile. Fake profiles are usually chicks that look nothing like the chick in the picture (they are usually ugly) or in some rare cases they could actually be the Cops.

If you are looking to just to listen to some music, have some drinks, have some light convo and get some dances throughout the night, then you are looking at the Strip Club. You don't have to go into VIP, VIP is just a more "private" room for the dance, but you could always just get that same thing from a personal corner of the Strip Club as well especially if it's not on a very busy/crowded night. In the vast majority of Strip Clubs, you are NOT going to be able to have regular sex nor oral sex with her in the VIP room as there's cameras in the room as well as rules that ban such activity. In some rare cases and in some rare Strip Clubs, you might be able to do this, but as I said it would be much more convenient for you to just go on Backpage.com directly.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Willard said:
I was in Key West a few months ago. First she gave me a massage, then she asked If I wanted a dance, I said only if I can suck her boobs during the dance, she said not for the price of a dance, which is $25, I asked how much, she said $35. I sucked her boobs and she played with my unit through my pants, then I asked if I could see her *****, she bent over and spread it open for me. I said I really want to eat your *****, she said we can't do it here but for $40 we can do it after her shift.

We exchanged numbers, but I was too drunk that night to bother. I'm sure full sex and a BJ were available for a $100 or so. She texted me a couple of days later but Key West is 3 hours from me.

It's definitely available if you play your cards right. I prefer escorts but If I'm at a strip club it's cool. I don't have any fear of disease from escorts or strippers, they usually have better hygiene girls from bars and clubs.
Hygeine won't prevent vd's
 
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