"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"Stripper in training?"

MARVEL IQ

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Hey how is it going guys. I haven't posted for a while, my bad. I know, I love you too. Ok so today I approach four sets, the first three were way older than me but I did good, the fourth was close to my age. I number close the fourth.

This fr is about the 2nd approach. She was a HB 8.5, 20 years old (though looked my age).

I was talking to my friend about his speech (I broke the three second rule). So while reading the speech, I turn to her (sitting across me one seat away on the bus). SHe had shown her friend who had left her new tattoo.

Me: (situational opener) Hey what those your tattoo mean?
HB: O (something that sounds good, dont remember)
Me: Are you sure?... 'cause my brother takes chinese and I'm pretty sure that means "*****ass"
HB: (laughs) no, I checked five times
Me: Aight, when you are old, and your grandkids ask, don't say I didn't warn you
HB: (laughs and says something then..) I have 12 tattooes
Me: (teasing, I put up my hand covering her and say to my friend) Ok that was too much info
HB: (laughs)
ME: your parents must have been pissed when you came home with that

HB talks about how her parents have mad tattooes, so its cool. I notice her fake stripper like nails and comment on them, busting on her.

Me: Wow.. can I ask you something without you getting total pissed
HB: (laughs hardcore) ok go ahead
Me: Are you a stripper in training?
HB: (Laughs, and a couple of people around laugh too) No!!
Me: What would be your stripper name if you were going to be one
HB: (suprising the hell out of me) Candy
Me: O for real, I don't know your name so I'm just going to call you that
HB: (laughs) you know you're not the first to ask me if I was a stripper in training
Me: O thats good, so i don't get slapped with those nails.... have you ever slapped someone with those
HB: Yea, my boyfriend
Me: For real, violence is not the answer dont you know that
HB: He hit me first.

OK, what the hell, I had a perfect chance for a boyfriend but couldn't run one. Didn't have anything to say to it at the moment maybe 'cause the set was so high energy. Help me out help

We continue to talk, she tells me she's 20 and goes on and talk about how she wants to study fashion design in university.

I then ask her if her boyfriend would be pissed if she called me, she says yes of course. She then asks me if I going to be on the same bus everyday (major IOI).

I roleplay alittle.

Me: (checking my cell) ok at 2:25, i be on this bus everyday.
HB: (laughs) I got to go
ME: Bye candy.

I don't think I handle this well. I didnt have a lot of time to work with. so who knows maybe it was out of my control but I know that is a sure lie. (lol)

Love,
Marvel IQ
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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Rocko

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on the contrary, i think this is an example of a good opener and you did what you could in the time that you had, you stayed cool when she told you her BF hit her, next time, just pull for the number close, sounds like you coulda gotten it.
 
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Wow, great high energy set. I love gettting into those moods.

Your close was a little weak though, totally put her on a pedestal.

"I asked if her boyfriend would be pissed if she called me"

I can't say exactly what it is, but that sentence... its... I don't know... that concept is wrong.
 

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Great post man. Keep em' coming.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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