sorry for long response! hey guys i need some help with a stripper i wana hook up with or date. ok me and my buddies went to a strip club and i felt like i had a connection with this one girl. now im not stupid, i know its a strippers job to flirt with me and everything. but it was little things she did that made me feel like she liked me for more then a customer, for example the club was prety dead. so although she had not alot of other potential customers she stayed and talked with just me even though she knew the possibility of geting money from me was doubtful.i found out she grew upp like 5 min from me and we went to same highschool and were same age. i had a big graduation class. so we both thought that was prety cool. i was joking with her how i was broke and told her to go to my friend instead in a jokin way. so we talked and she started touchin my leg and all. id atribute to this being her job but like i said after the money joke i felt like she didnt see me as a customer. i did however end up getin a lap dabce from her.but she had no idea i was goin to. she was just chiilen wastin time in my opinion. afterwords she flirted with me and i left ther private room. then i sit at my table and she comes up with a big smile on her face and flirts and touches me. at this point i know she knows im done giving her money. the other stripper i got a dance from ignored me after she was done with me.this one kept talkin and touching. is this anything? i convince my frineds to sit near stage when she goes on before we leave. so we do the dolar thing and she get on top of me in my seat at the stage and give me like a 3 min lapdance. for just the dollar. after i craked a joke and she got a uncontrolable smile on her face.i could tell she was trying to hide it.plus i know they try to be real serious and sexy on stage. then my friend give her dollar and she does her thing for like litteraly 20sec at most. anyway then we leave cuz my buddys were begin to go. my questions: do you guys feel like i was doing good with her. is there a possibility she was into me or was i just another customer based off what i told u. also i didnt get a chance to say goodbye or get her number. supposed i go back in about a week how should i handel the situation. how would a don juan handel the situation from here. assumin you felt like she was somewhat into you, but nothing too serious. thanks guys
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
tsmith2334
Master Don Juan
She's a stripper man.
You probably shouldn't lose much sleep over this one.
You probably shouldn't lose much sleep over this one.
ThatMysteriousGuy
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Yes, and more importantly to get you to keep coming back. That's what they are all supposed to do. A large part of their job is encouraging repeat business.tyrone said:
yea your right guys. like i said i know its there job. but guys DO actualy hook up with strippers and i wana be one of them if i can hahah. i mean strippers are strippers but they are humans too. there not gona be robotic looking for money. if their into a guy they may show it. i mean don juans do hook up with strippers. i was just stating my interaction with her and askin where i should go from their because it is possible. thanks for the reponse though guys.
SchoolBoy
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You can tell if she's interested in you by going back there next time and getting her number. Call her to go on a date with you, and if she shows up. Then she's interested.tyrone said:
DJ's don't beat around the bush and try to find out whether she's interested enough to approach. DJ's just approach.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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If a stripper is really interested in you, you can get her # and set up a date WITHOUT buying a dance. She'll let you know. Use push pull. Acta, non verba.
Ken785
Master Don Juan
Its called the stripper hustle. www.stripperweb.com