"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Stripper gave me her number.. Not sure if serious...

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Went to some random strip club with a couple buddies last night. Not gonna write up the entire convo, but I chatted with this one girl and we got talking about Fifty Shades of Grey because I share the main male characters first name. At some point she asked me if I'm sadistic. I flirtatiously told her it depends on the day/my mood and she said "well call me when you're in that mood!" Took my phone out and got her number. Was thinking of texting the number tomorrow and seeing if I get a legit response. I can give more details on the night but I'm not sure it matters. I also didn't spend much money.

I tried getting a number a while ago in this other club but the girl didn't oblige.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I wouldn't bother texting her on Christmas eve..or Christmas..or boxing day. MAYBE around new years..maybe. Otherwise wait until the new year..
 

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BadNews said:
I wouldn't bother texting her on Christmas eve..or Christmas..or boxing day. MAYBE around new years..maybe. Otherwise wait until the new year..
Seems like way too long to text a chick, especially a stripper..
 

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It isn't. If you want to seem like a needy clingy piece of sh!t, then by all means...text her the day after you got her number. Go ahead, do it. Any interest she may have had will disappear faster than her clothes do while she's working!

Also, you hardly know this woman. She will be spending time with her family/close friends tomorrow, the last thing on her mind is going to be the random dude she gave her number to at the strip club the night before. I know, I know: she's a stripper. Strippers, unfortunately, have families and close friends like the rest of us - and yes, they do spend time with them during the holidays.
 

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I say hit her up as soon as possible. This girl is a stripper and at that time wanted to sex you up. Why wait a couple of days so she can forget about how she felt when you two first initiated contact. Here is one of the cases where I would institute the 72 hour sex rule. That rule pretty much means you should try to hit that thing as fast as possible. If you don't get it within those three days then your probably not going to get it.

I think you should have trieed to hit it that night or today for sure. This girl is a professional h0 for gods sake! Why wait to hit a h0.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I'd say you have nothing to loose a woman can always change her mind at any time for whatever reason(s) you may never find out. When you consider she's stripper it means she comes across lots of guys so you taking your time about it may mean someone else snatching her up. The fact that she gave you her # of her own choosing means she may want you asap.

I've only been with one stripper. That night I had a private dance $20 and bought her a drink and she told me she wanted to leave with me that night after she got off work. That's what happened and we did it that same night. Afterwards she kept wanting me to come to her job to see her but hanging out at strip clubs isn't really my thing plus I was busy and didn't have all that money to waste. So, eventually things fell apart. In this case I'd say it's probably my fault.
ANyway, that's the only stripper I had ever been with.
 

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My experience with strippers is that they change their number often. I've waited a week only to get a no longer in service after she texted me a few days before. This was a girl I gave no money, no dances, and she was making out with me hardcore in the corner. Damn near did everything with her.

I've had another girl recently give me her number then come off with $300 an hour SMH.
 

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yeah, i don't do strippers i meet in a strip club. way to flakey

think about it? guys go there and pay her money to take her clothes off. her ego is going to be off the charts. try find a normal girl in the real world?
 

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Just be on the lookout for a 350 lb. gorilla with a bat behind her bedroom door when you get there. I wouldn't trust a stripper.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Seems to me she liked the way you flapped your jaw.

All you got to do is call her when you feel sadistic. You already know the type of chick she is, so just invite her over for a drink, then when she gets there, fvck her and choke her while you're cumming or something.

Just call after christmas and before new years.

Oh yeah. She told you to CALL her, so CALL. Don't text.
 

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
I say hit her up as soon as possible. This girl is a stripper and at that time wanted to sex you up. Why wait a couple of days so she can forget about how she felt when you two first initiated contact. Here is one of the cases where I would institute the 72 hour sex rule. That rule pretty much means you should try to hit that thing as fast as possible. If you don't get it within those three days then your probably not going to get it.

I think you should have trieed to hit it that night or today for sure. This girl is a professional h0 for gods sake! Why wait to hit a h0.
I'd agree more with AJ here.. She's a stripper and sees tons of different guys in all walks of life every working night. The sooner you contact her the better. And to be honest, if a chick (ANY chick) is into you it won't matter whether you text her within 12 hours or 72 hours - she'll be excited to hear from you.

Also, no worries if you don't get a text back. Most strippers are professional bullsh!t artists who are in love with $$$$ and will do anything, including giving you their phone number, for a few extras dollars in their G-string.

One more thing.. You'll get different advice from everyone. Some say contact now, some say wait, etc.. Do what YOU feel is right. Response? Great. No response? On to the next one.
 
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