Hi I went to this strip club the other nite by myself and end it up French kissing a gorgeous striper , I left and didn't tough much bout it , came back and saw her again and again we end it up French kissing and we do have a nice thing going in when we kiss ... She tells me bout everything , I ask for her phone number and she didn't gave it to me the first or the second time , i left my business card with her she never call... she told me she has a boyfriend and that she lives with him ...her friend was there the first time and she made a comment to her that I was cute ... The last two times I'm just there like hanging out with them like a regular and one time she was talking to her friend and her friend looked at me and stop talking and she said he's good I trust him ... Also the last time she said that I was not a costumer just a friend ... She never asks for dances or VIPs nothing but also she doesn't want to date me she gave me her number but she's cold on her responses .... I ask her what was going on and she nothing your cute , a good kisser and I like u ... But that's it she wants to leave it there .... Plus she talks to me bout guys she has as regulars outside the club and she and her friends talk bout sex with guys at the club all the time , I wanna be with her but don't want to fall in to the customer category any advice ??? Thx !!!!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Striper confusion ....
- Thread starter Southfl69
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
you french kissed a stripper!!! Do you know where her mouth has been??? Damn dude, I nailed one of those skank bags in my earlier years and had to use a blow torch to get rid of the crabs she gave me!!! Many of those chicks have had more Co^&&K than a used rubber!!
In2theGame
Master Don Juan
I dont know why but i get the feeling your going to get chewed up from this post lol seriously speaking, i wouldnt take things too serious. Just have fun and meet multiple girls, maybe someone else has a different view on it but my advice dont get too caught up and just have fun.
In2theGame
Master Don Juan
Ewww damn lolsicsec said:
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
advice is if she can french kiss you which many girls consider more intimate than some sexual favors than you should be able to fu%%^ck her!!! just wear three rubbers though!! LOL!!! patience is key...find a way to get alone with her with a couple drinks in her or stoned preferably at your pad....Only the fat smellly guys are suckers that throw all the money at them at the club...if they like you aside from that on a physical level they will let you know.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Worst advice you'll ever get regarding strippers.sicsec said:
I'll be honest, my gf who is a stripper that I met a club didn't give me a french kiss until our 4 month anniversary. That said, she gave me her number the first day, never said she had a boyfriend (even though she secretly did for months), and never used the 'F' word to describe me (friend). It is good that other strippers tell her you are good looking (but it has to happen with several independent ones). If she can't brag about you to her coworkers, she's not taking you seriously. Some guys think they'll find love in a vaccuum. No, it's market rate (for ALL women).
It's much easier to go from customer to lover than from friend to lover. With American women, all dates are customers. And if you think the sex is expensive now, wait until it's free. Want to woo a stripper and not spend money? Good luck. Even though mine comes over and spends the night now, I am still generous at her club when I see her on a work night (once every 2 weeks or so). A water costs $8 with tip for God's sake. Do you want to get a discount by whOring her out to other guys for lap dances? A man takes care of his woman (plus a good one saves half of her income, so if you stay together, she's like a bank). They want to live the good life, and 5 star hotels can cost $900 a night.
But if you're really cute, and really nice, and a really good friend, then maybe someday she'll realize that money can't compete with cute, nice friends.
To be honest with u I like her ... I know what u guys r gonna say its not a good idea and run now.... But I do.... Maybe cuz she's playing hard to get or I don't know but I been thinking bout her n I never call her or anything she doesn't respond well... I don't know what's the right thing to do ....thx for taking the time !!!