"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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upsidedownside7

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Well boys, yesterday was my first venture in a strip club and it was glorious. I absolutely think strip clubs are a great tool for the newbies to get our of their shells. Pulling strippers is something I have no clue about but for the introverted guy who doesn't have a big social circle and is dying to party with hot chicks, go to a strip club. I'll explain why...

Most guys that go sit back, have a creepy smile on their face and drop hundreds of dollars on lap dances and don't make a single sound. You do NOT have to spend a lot of money. When I went I partied with these kids I just met, slapped dollar bills on girls asses, made monkey noises and beat my chest like king kong.

When you DO infact party as opposed to being a quiet loser that gives away all his cash, the girls vibe will completely change. It was very weird to see their state change right infront of my eyes. At first they'll ask your name, where your from (fake rapport crap) and put up this sexual vibe that totally seems like a front. By the end of the night the way these same girls talked totally changed and actually were laughing and cheering with us. What happened to their sexy vibe? It VANISHES when they see you in a different light as opposed to "customer" they'll see you as "fun guys". This makes sense with Gunwitch's dominate the frame. If you play into their vibe, your money is all gone. If they play into your vibe you've made some new friends and will have a blast.

Now what is this going to do for you? Does it make you alpha in their eyes? I have no idea. I do know they will enjoy your company and will probably give you a bunch of FREE lapdances. In this game, you need different energies. You can't act like the way you would in a club like you would in a book store and vice versa. Strip clubs is an easy, easy way to practice that vibe and hang out with chix who are paid to party with you. As far as demeanor I'd suggest having a positive vibe. The people that get the most free action in a strip club are the people who aren't a threat. That's also why women, even fat ugly gross women will get more action that some buff hot guy. So be chill, smile, look at the goods, party, be loud, stand your ground don't let those girls lead you to spend more money, don't be afraid of them they are nice, let them rub you, laugh with them and this wil be great experience for every don juan.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Sorry but I completely disagree, but then again its just my opinion. You can be fun, but the whole monkey noises, beating chest thing is a bit much. I do agree totally that you should have fun and party it up in there. But there is a happy medium between the creepy guy in the corner and the crazy almost drunk guy. You are right when you said that the girls treat you differently when they dont think of you as a customer. However these girls were likely playing the **** out of you. They know that if you they cheer you on you will come back more and tip more, and guess what it worked cause you are talking about how great it is to come in there all the time.

My personal advice for scoring strip club chicks is develop the happy medium, come with a group of friends that are crazy partiers, and you can still come off as being fun as hell, but relaxed enough to be a little more mature. But then again it all depends on what kind of strippers they are, some are classier than others. The times I have went I hardly tipped at all, I mean I wasnt a **** about it, but I tipped here and there, but I wasn't throwing money at them, I think that is the way to go, respect them and show some interest but not so much you sell yourself out and look like a dip****.

But that is just my opinion, good luck pulling strippers, and keep having fun man, live it up. Now if your not looking to actually pick any girls from there up, then do what you said and party to the max.
 

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Dude you paid to look at pu$$y and fake racks for one night and all of a sudden it makes you qualified to be handing out advice on male/female interaction?

These chicks are paid to mind fukk you and they are masters at it. Unless you are a player or PUA their social skills are much more calibrated then yours are. Trust me man, I've been to the rodeo a few more times then you have.

Now I will agree with the fact that Strip Clubs can help a newbie get out of his shell a little bit. They go into a strip club, and HB's will talk to them weather they like it or not. Getting experience talking to HB's is a plus, even if they are after your money.

Another thing strip clubs are good for is putting you into a sexual state. I will often go to a Strip Club for an hour or two before I go out on the town to get my sexual state in gear.

But trying to pull a stripper is pretty much a headache from the word go. It's like walking through the mine field of emotionally F'd up girls with multiple baby daddies and coke problems.

If you want a hot chick with a good sex drive start sarging on college parties.
 

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To the first guy: Everyone knows these chicks are using you for money. Use them back to enjoy yourself and have a good time without spending too much of it. These clubs are great for using different energies. If people think your the crazy drunk guy....who cares? Being in a strip club is the best excuse to act like an animal and for someone newer to this game they need to test out their energy levels. As far as pulling strippers like I said I have no idea how but the point isn't about pulling chicks which is why you should embarrass yourself. I guarantee you partying in a club is ten times better than saying "hi" to 10 girls on the street.

Second dude: I have no idea who you are but you came off ****y as hell. I don't know who you are but I know for a FACT you barely read this post and I have no idea why your giving me GENERIC advice.

"Dude you paid to look at pu$$y and fake racks for one night and all of a sudden it makes you qualified to be handing out advice on male/female interaction?"

I know you DID NOT read the post. Go back and read it again. Who said because it was my first visit in a strip club I don't know sh*t about gaming? You which is stupid. The point of the thread is to get guys who are too busy thinking "I'll be the brooding alpha male" in motion to getting the wheels turning and to PARTY. To stand out and not be a wallflower. I've been there and it gets you NOTHING.

"They go into a strip club, and HB's will talk to them weather they like it or not. Getting experience talking to HB's is a plus, even if they are after your money."

Yeah you did NOT read my post. Every idiot knows they are after your money, the point is to have fun with HOT girls. You don't need to spend money to party with everyone in the club. The goal of the evening was to show my buddies a good time and managed to spend less than 50 dollars total for being in that club for 3 hours. They won't forget it, I won't so don't bother trying to spin going to a strip club in a negative light, It was fun.

"Trust me man, I've been to the rodeo a few more times then you have."

According to your logic you spent money on fake tits and *****, therefore your not qualified to be handing out advice. You missed the entire point of this thread and instead tried to show off without ANY RESULTS. Unless you have results, I won't care...

"But trying to pull a stripper is pretty much a headache from the word go. It's like walking through the mine field of emotionally F'd up girls with multiple baby daddies and coke problems. If you want a hot chick with a good sex drive start sarging on college parties."

Once again nobody mentioned pulling strippers. I don't know why your giving me advice on that. Baby daddies, coke problems etc. who cares? There are plenty of regular women who are f*cked up just the same and you would never even know it. Doesn't mean you shouldn't ever check them out or party with them. You went MULTIPLE times so your saying one thing and doing another. The last part also made no sense, go sarge college chicks. Yeah that's a good idea but it's NOT RELATED.

To the guys who are pondering about this: Do not listen to that guy and do it. Bring your friends, have fun, get some free lapdances and party. Get a chance to do what you would consider too crazy in a club. He went multiple times himself so his post conflicted with what he was trying to say. PARTY PARTY PARTY!!!!1
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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