"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Strip clubs / brothels / massge parlours increases confidence?

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I went to a strip club last night, and 6 or 7 girls were all looking towards my way **** man i felt like i was the alpha, these girls were smiling towards my way.

And 2 girls came towards my way playfully dancing on my lap : - ) this continued for a fair time, they were just hanging around for their time slot, one girl slipped me her number all these girls called me "cute".

All these fat ****s, weirdos were looking towards MY way lolzzzz and a few other good looking guys were there too.


Talk about confidence improving :) this 21 year old chic slipped me her number, probably for a **** ; - ) which i need
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yeah, they'll keep smiling & dancing for you as long as you've got money left in your wallet. :rolleyes:
 

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When strippers see you they see a big fat $, nothing else dude.
 

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DON'T LISTEN TO THE OTHER TWO.

I go to brothels, strip clubs, massage parlors all the time and they have made me more confident of myself and towards women.

When I walk in.. all I gotta do is use the power of eye contact and kino and c&f so I won't afc and become a dj. I am a 10 and all the fine b1tches in there are HB8s,9s,10s that I can get my game on.

I AM SO CONFIDENT.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Originally posted by DeathDealer
DON'T LISTEN TO THE OTHER TWO.

I go to brothels, strip clubs, massage parlors all the time and they have made me more confident of myself and towards women.

When I walk in.. all I gotta do is use the power of eye contact and kino and c&f so I won't afc and become a dj. I am a 10 and all the fine b1tches in there are HB8s,9s,10s that I can get my game on.

I AM SO CONFIDENT.
Your right deathdealer.

My first time to anything R rated places, and i felt damn confident. Not too be ****y or anything but i do get alot of eye contact whenever i go out.

This time, i felt way better because they came onto me. :)
 

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I prefer high-class hookers, myself. But to each his own.
 

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High class hookers? Damn you must be darn rich they are like $1000 for 1 hr.
 

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Nah. You can still get da bomb b**ches for under 4 bills in NY.

e.g., http://www.escorts.com/viewprofile.asp?m=1745245



Places like American Beauties, New York Confidential (the place that recently got busted and was all over the NY papers), Mona Lisa Models, etc. are for sucker tourists who only know about stuff they see on TV ($1K for some @ss is ridiculous).
 

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4G's? 4 bills.. are u crazy.. for a crack ***** hooker.. come to tee dot, and get a rub down, hed, or full service for a fraction of that... plus the girls are decent... 2 weeks ago, i went to a parlour with my friends, got the sweetest ukrainiane chick in the room.. i'd say an hb8, 4real... she started rubbing my thing down for 60 bux... i wasnt busting, so i hustled her, and told her that i can please her and i'd bust quicker that way.... she agreed, and we went ALL OUT that night... unfortunately i didnt bust, and we had to end it after an hour an a half...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I hate say it

But does'nt supporting prostitution kinda negate the entire concept of being a DJ?
 

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Re: I hate say it

Originally posted by cinephile
But does'nt supporting prostitution kinda negate the entire concept of being a DJ?
Yes
 

baracus

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Originally posted by Chilli_pimp
4G's? 4 bills.. are u crazy.. for a crack ***** hooker.. come to tee dot, and get a rub down, hed, or full service for a fraction of that... plus the girls are decent... 2 weeks ago, i went to a parlour with my friends, got the sweetest ukrainiane chick in the room.. i'd say an hb8, 4real... she started rubbing my thing down for 60 bux... i wasnt busting, so i hustled her, and told her that i can please her and i'd bust quicker that way.... she agreed, and we went ALL OUT that night... unfortunately i didnt bust, and we had to end it after an hour an a half...
Not 4G's, under $400. Crack ***** hooker? Nah, more like college educated beauty with a tight ass body who can f**k and suck like a champ. I used to go to a few of those massage parlors, but I found that it was a hit or miss. Sometimes the girls does only covered BJ's, or no touching rules, and s**t like that.

Originally posted by cinephile
But does'nt supporting prostitution kinda negate the entire concept of being a DJ?
No. It supplements it. I still get b****es, but we all have dry spells. Also, sometimes I just want to f**k, and I on these occasions I prefer certainty over possibility.
 

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I go to brothels, strip clubs, massage parlors all the time and they have made me more confident of myself and towards women.
hahhahaha I'm sorry but that really cracks me up man. Brothels dahahahaha
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Back in the day when I was less confident, I would hit a strip club before hitting the dance clubs/pubs/bars/lounges on occasion.

Wouldn't spend any money, other than the cover charge.

Having hot, bikini-clad women approaching me constantly (even though it was for lap dances) and turning them down, talking $#!T to them, flipped the script in my mind.

About a half-hour of that and I'd hit the 'real" clubs and sarge women.

Don't need that type of crutch anymore though.
 

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dam derek thats a good idea...
 

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Wouldn't spend any money, other than the cover charge.
That's really sh|tty. They hate people like you. Theyre there to make fukkng money, thats theyre fukking job, how they pay for sh|t.

I hate people like you too. I've worked as a waiter, and youre one of those fukkers who would sit at a table and just order water. Or order a really big meal and not tip.
 

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Originally posted by Derek Flint
Back in the day when I was less confident, I would hit a strip club before hitting the dance clubs/pubs/bars/lounges on occasion.

Wouldn't spend any money, other than the cover charge.

Having hot, bikini-clad women approaching me constantly (even though it was for lap dances) and turning them down, talking $#!T to them, flipped the script in my mind.

About a half-hour of that and I'd hit the 'real" clubs and sarge women.

Don't need that type of crutch anymore though.
How old are you?
 

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Originally posted by AverageFC
That's really sh|tty. They hate people like you. Theyre there to make fukkng money, thats theyre fukking job, how they pay for sh|t.

I hate people like you too. I've worked as a waiter, and youre one of those fukkers who would sit at a table and just order water. Or order a really big meal and not tip.
woah whats up your ass today.

I cant believe this is what the sosuave forums have turned to.

HAY GUYS GOING TO STRIP CLUBS MAKE ME FEEL SO ALPHA WHEN HB12'S APPROACH ME OMG.

NO OF COURSE THEY DONT WANT MONEY OR IT'S THEIR JOB TO TALK TO ME.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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