"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So this girl i have been hanging out w/ wants to go to the strip club, supposed to go tonight, however i really don't want to go...i would like to suggest hey likes bring the strip club to us...or i don't want to see any of the other women i basically just want to see you (cheezy) u can strip for me
suggestions, bring the strip club to us
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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here is another example of why conviction statements are helpful always lead try not to ask questions, make statements. this is our text conversation.

Me: lets go to silk?
Her: Wouldn't you love that.
Me: I assume you would find some enjoyment/entertainment
( she doesn't reply back, shes at work....an hour later i reply)

Me: I will pick you up at about 8 go to silk haaa
Her: Shoot boy u got down your moves.

However, i would like her to striptease for me instead rather than go to the strip club.
 
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Go with her. Ask why she wants to go. Maybe seeing naked girls gets her horny. It could be a good time.
 
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Silk sounds like a strip bar full of dudes. I may be wrong though. I don't think a good date would be to have sausage thrust into your face.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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