"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Strip Club Sarging

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Check out my melody.

What a day.

You ever have one of those days where everything just goes smoothly. Walking through the social matrix I was in the zone.

Today me and my wing used our social engineering to get everything from free food to lap dances, clothes, and whatnot.

The night ended up in the Scrip Club. Of course we get in free to the joint because I know the owner.

So I stoll over to the pool table with my wing. Kick back. Observe. Take our seats.

I've been studying Mysterys stripper rules and implemented them quite nice. HB9.3 comes over and offers us a dollar dance. Of course we say NO.

I follwed it with the "I'm gay routine" and fluffed for a little. It works because it'll usually disarm her and hide your real pick up intentions. Making sure not to give here the same conversation topics she get everyday AND not making the obvious mistake of complimenting her physical assests.

Long story short..buying temp is through the ROOF. I tell her to go get me an APP because I wanted to be a DJ. She ran up. Got me one and was so giddy the whole time. Got a kiss close and number close and rolled out.

Funny thing is we didn't buy one lap dance. But some weird Mexican dude bought us one. Dude was AFC. He told us to "loosen" up cause we weren't AFCing ourselves and spending money on these hoes.

Conclusion: A lot ob people look down on Strip Clubs but my opinon is this. Even if a Stripper is not a HB10 she gets the same treatment as HB10's. So for instance - you might have a HB7 and she has the attitude of a 10 because she gets so many compliments and lame pick up lines from AFC's. So a PUA can come in and do some NEGS and what not...and it's good because you don't even have to open these chicks. Plus it gets you comfortable talking with cute chicks.

The goal for an AFC should be to BANG the hottest babe in possible. Once you can conquer an HB10 talking to anything below that is easy.

Be cool
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I got free lap dances at a place where it cost 20 bucks to get a lap dance. She thought I was loaded which I was at the time. She walked by when I was paying for my drinks and had about 1700 in 100's and 20's. SHe later told me if I gave her 1000 she and her friend would treat me right.... I told her thanks I would rather pass and keep my Richard from rotting off.

the whole night she tried to get me all worked up but in the end I just hurt her feelings for being a *****. :down:
 

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I have a question about strip clubs in general. Umm, I went to a strip club once, and it was really like low down scum kind of one. Like drunk 60 year old man and native americans off a reserve. But anyway, even though this place was a dive and only had female strippers, there was a couple ****ing hot hot chicks in the crowd watching. Are these chicks prostitutes or something?
 

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Meh - picking up strippers is really not that tough. I've been with quite a few but you just end up in the midst of all their ridiculous stripper drama. I'm not screwing around with strippers anymore. I am tired of being woken up in the middle of the night because the girl in my bed just got a call to say her stripper friend just overdosed and needs a ride to the hospital. F*ck that sh*t

~Sloopy.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by avrilishot
damn im not that low to pick up a stripper.
Why are you dissing strippers? They do an honest job and make a living. Not all of them are party animals and crack hoes, some of them have goals and things in life that they want to accomplish and may not have been as lucky as other people to be born in a situation where they can do those things.

Now, having said that, I wouldn't actually marry or date a stripper.. again.

I had a one year relationship with a dancer. She was from the Czech rep. Sent all her money back home to her mom and little brother. Not a typical stripper type at all.

But, I wouldn't go there again. It is an emotional roller coaster, dealing with the feeling of having to share her with her customers. But, if she left dancing, I would definitely consider her as a serious relationship prospect again.
 

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I've been to strip clubs (where women strip), have nothing against strippers, but have not had any success while they're working. I did do a stripper that I met in Wal-Mart.

The best time I ever had at a strip show was a local bar had Chippendale dancers. My wing said "WTF, are you turning gay?"
He reluctantly went with me. Picture this, 6 male strippers, 50 gay guys and 100 horny women. It was like shooting fish in a barrel. We both got laid, many phone numbers, women fighting over us. Now my wing says "Damn, I wish they would have male strippers every week!"
 

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I don't know where you live, but strippers here are lunatics, *****s, drug addicts, drunks, single mothers... uh, you get the picture. Pick up a real woman for christs sakes. I have a very low opinion of anyone that falls for a biatch that gives lap dances for a living.
 

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Originally posted by Casino
Check out my melody.

What a day.

You ever have one of those days where everything just goes smoothly. Walking through the social matrix I was in the zone.

Today me and my wing used our social engineering to get everything from free food to lap dances, clothes, and whatnot.

The night ended up in the Scrip Club. Of course we get in free to the joint because I know the owner.
This is where I stop reading. :p It's no longer about "sarging"...you've got the "in". You can get whatever you want. Don't think they didn't notice. ;)

Seriously though...I've gotten numbers off strippers...usually they just want you to come and meet them back at the club so they can work you for more money. I've almost dated a few, but things didn't work out. It's possible to get dates off of them, though. Distinguish yourself from the other customers by not PAYING for their affection. Tease them, talk to them like you would any other girl. Their goal is to sell to you, so they'll turn on the charm heavy, but those girls are human too, and if they sit there and try to get you excited long enough, they'll start to get excited themselves...if you're game's tight.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by ikkenai
I don't know where you live, but strippers here are lunatics, *****s, drug addicts, drunks, single mothers... uh, you get the picture. Pick up a real woman for christs sakes. I have a very low opinion of anyone that falls for a biatch that gives lap dances for a living.
I live in Canada, and I think we are a lot more sexually liberated here than down in the States. So, we do get a lot of "normal" girls that get into dancing for the money.

We also have a lot of East European girls coming over to dance. For the most part these girls are very well educated and have a lot going for them. The only problem is that the economies in their countries SUCK. And it is very difficult to get decent jobs so they take up dancing.

I have met a lot sluttier non dancers than my ex-girlfriend.
 

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Whats the skill here - for 60.00 you can get a hot stripper to do whatever you want with them. There are no DJ skills required.

Go the bank machine and take out 3 20s - why mess around trying to work angles and spend money on drinks and all that wasted time.

You can pretty much walk into a place - find the one that is attractive to you - walk up to her and give her 60.00 "to have some fun".
 

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Originally posted by flexion_
Whats the skill here - for 60.00 you can get a hot stripper to do whatever you want with them. There are no DJ skills required.
The skill is to get it for FREE. Any loser can take $60 bucks out and spend it on a stripper. But, how many guys can get that for free?

A busy dancer can pull in close to $500 on most nights. And all the guys gets to do is to gawk at her and stare at her naked body. Then she comes home to you and you get to have her for free. That is some major ego boost right there buddy.

Guys used to spend thousands of dollars on my ex-girlfriend, getting dances from her and trying to ask her out. She would come and tell me all about these losers and I would get a good laugh.

A regular girl gets hit on maybe 2 or 3 times a day, these dancers get hit on 20 to 30 times a day. But, she is with you. That is the skill right there..
 

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There should be a rule here when it comes to Strip Club "sarges".
Because there is too much conjecture and debating that these b!tches are extremely skilled at making the man feel like his game is bullet proof.

I propose only LAY reports (with no money exchanged) be posted when it comes to strippers, anything else is here say, bells and whistles.
 

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Strippers

I was dating two ex strippers at once. Both turned out to be big losers. One is still calling me like non-stop and has started dancing again. She evn got my name tat'd on her leg. That's one venue I'll leave to you, Sir.

Total trash in my experience. Worse, it's the kind of trash that knows how to hide drug habbits/criminal connections from you. Please don't really meet these women outside the club unless you plan to score and RUN. Don't give them your home #, address, or anything that they can use to harass you with.

My story: One x-stripper was a coke dealer connected to all kinds of criminals. The other has an HIV infected Husband in prison and is out on bail for armed robbery herself.

See past the pretty faces. These hoes are wack. I don't know what experiences this Mystery guy may have had, but I know strippers in East St. Louis are BAAAD news. Probably the same elsewhere too, I imagine.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by ( . )( . )
There should be a rule here when it comes to Strip Club "sarges".
Because there is too much conjecture and debating that these b!tches are extremely skilled at making the man feel like his game is bullet proof.

I propose only LAY reports (with no money exchanged) be posted when it comes to strippers, anything else is here say, bells and whistles.
That is very true. The more money you spend on them, the less they will respect you. In fact, they will start viewing you as another customer and a loser.

I only got dances once from the dancer I ended up going out with for a year. The first time I saw her. That was it. At the end of the dances we chatted and I gave her my number, she contacted me and two weeks later we were dating. If she really likes you, she is not going to make you keep coming back and spending money on her.

But, I agree with what you are saying. She did keep leading on several of her customers into thinking that she would go out with them one day. Many of them were totally in love with her and they kept coming back and spending money on her, but she never went out with them.
 

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Re: Strippers

Originally posted by everywomanshero
I was dating two ex strippers at once. Both turned out to be big losers. One is still calling me like non-stop and has started dancing again. She evn got my name tat'd on her leg. That's one venue I'll leave to you, Sir.

Total trash in my experience. Worse, it's the kind of trash that knows how to hide drug habbits/criminal connections from you. Please don't really meet these women outside the club unless you plan to score and RUN. Don't give them your home #, address, or anything that they can use to harass you with.

My story: One x-stripper was a coke dealer connected to all kinds of criminals. The other has an HIV infected Husband in prison and is out on bail for armed robbery herself.

See past the pretty faces. These hoes are wack. I don't know what experiences this Mystery guy may have had, but I know strippers in East St. Louis are BAAAD news. Probably the same elsewhere too, I imagine.
That might be the case in the US. And there are strippers like that. But, the one I dated didn't even drink alcohol, let alone do drugs. Didn't party, didn't waste her money on clothes. Nothing.

She was just a regular girl from the Czech Republic. She used to send 70% of the money she earned back home to her divorced mom and little brother. I know, because I was there most of the time when she was sending the money.

So, while your experience might be the more common one. The girl I dated was nothing like it. I wouldn't have gone near her if she was anything like you mentioned.
 

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There should be a rule here when it comes to Strip Club "sarges".
Because there is too much conjecture and debating that these b!tches are extremely skilled at making the man feel like his game is bullet proof.

I propose only LAY reports (with no money exchanged) be posted when it comes to strippers, anything else is here say, bells and whistles.

-Tits
agreed.

and for whats its worth... youd be better off if you took that 60 bucks, went out drinking and dancing, met your own babe and railed her for free.

strippers put their pvssies in every strangers face all night long. there is no value in that. whats valuable... what you brag about, is when you bang the cute, innocent girl next door who doesnt give it up on the first date. or the second.

supply and demand.

there is no value to the stripper *****, because everybody is hittin' it. even if youre getting herpes on your face for free, its still worthless.

strippers arent much different than prostitutes.

-SLB
 

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He kissed a stripper her barley knew. She could have sucked 10 d*cks that night. She's taking her cloths off for money whats to say she does'nt do extra. Strippers are dirty i have no respect for a woman who takes her cloths of in public for money. Even if a HB10 stripper hit on me i would tell her to fu*k off. Why associate your self with scum?

Why dont you try find a challange instead of a sl*t who shows her tits and pus*y to 100 guys a night, rubs her pus*y on atleast 20 guys di*ks every night she works (lap dances) and who knows what else.

Your judged by the company you keep. If you hang out with a stripper your no better than her.

Originally posted by MrLuvr
That might be the case in the US. And there are strippers like that. But, the one I dated didn't even drink alcohol, let alone do drugs. Didn't party, didn't waste her money on clothes. Nothing.

She was just a regular girl from the Czech Republic. She used to send 70% of the money she earned back home to her divorced mom and little brother. I know, because I was there most of the time when she was sending the money.

So, while your experience might be the more common one. The girl I dated was nothing like it. I wouldn't have gone near her if she was anything like you mentioned.
So you let you GF show her pus*y to 100s of strangers a night? you let you'rt gf give lap dances to 20 or so guys a night? you let you gf rub her tits in other guys faces all night?

You are just as low as her.

You're Gfs body should belong to you and not another 100 guys who pay her money to see it.

Ninja out
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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