"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Strip club rejection...

The Inside Man

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Obsidian said:
She was possibly a lesbian, and even if she wasn't, you had very little chance of doing anything with her because conversations are impossible in those ridiculous environments. I don't know why in the hell places feel the need to blast their music so loud these days.

i was at a bar/club saturday night with some friends (male and two females), but I didn't even bother trying to talk to any of the girls there because I knew it would be next to impossible to communicate
I like situations like this because you have to get very close to the person to hear what they are saying. Grab her and pull her in close and say something in her ear. After doing that a few times lean in again and instead of saying something kiss her. Good opportunity for keno. I hooked up with a girl at a blaring club who knew about 10 words of english so I know that it works, and although we didn't have much to talk about and had a hard time understanding each other the chemistry was there and thats all that matters.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Sandow

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Dude, she probably had a b/f and wasn't interested. Is it that shocking? Sounds like you haven't been rejected that much, otherwise you wouldn't have posted your question.

BTW, we're all giving constructive criticism here, we don't bullsh!t here. Take it and learn from it.
 
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