Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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I'll share mine from today. Well let's see, went in alone and the place was packed. About five minutes in a dancer approached me for a lap dance (i declined of course, didn't go in there with any extra money because the visit wasn't planned). Basically if you are NOT dressed in a suit, and DO NOT look like a business man, or are NOT of an old/mature age, the strippers don't care about you. They're all over old greasy fat cat's ($$$$$$). The strip club is like the "anti-game" place for DJ's because all you need is MONEY. That doesn't count. Oh yeah, and if you wanna "conversate" with strippers (don't know why you would wanna do that in the first place, most of them are totally mindless) then good luck. They spend a lot of time with their "regulars" who come in twice a week to see them specifically (and it doesn't matter how much "game" a guy has, he could be the biggest loser/geezer ever)

the bottom line, unless you're willing to spend money strip clubs are pretty lame. I'm 20, but I look like i'm 16 so it's no wonder why only like 4 dancers approached me the entire time.

strip clubs are one place that dj skills should NEVER be worked, they work in the opposite way.

oh and i forgot to add

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Dude im pretty sure doc love wrote an article on how to pimp a stripper.. check in the archives on the front page. IM actually going to the strip club tomorrow for the 2nd time.. ill post then.. im gonna use some of doc loves tactics. word.
 

So pimp its scary

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I work in a strip club at the moment, and I know, yes money is VERY important in that atmosphere, but it really does depend on the stripper herself.

Some of them are so money hungry that they'll ignore anyone that doesn't tip less then 5$, but they'll sit on the lap of the grossest, fattest baldest, ugliest dude with a wad of cash.

On the other hand, the reason that you can't pick up strippers is that you have them on some sort of pedestal. Put it this way, strippers LOVE to ƒuck! Sometimes, if you show that your interested, they come your way. When they are close, then you get to apply a little game on them. Then, when they finish and start selling private show tickets, get her close to you and start gaming her... she'll be pushing tickets, and you change the subject and get some sort of convo going for as long as possible, then you ask for the winning ticket, or how much for the winning ticket. Wen you get the private show, you can talk to the girl alittle better, and game on her some more.

After the show, do the number close thing, or whatever it takes to get her to bring you to her room.

I've watched it go down about a dozen times since I started work. It is doable though... and stripper sex is pretty ƒuckin good.
 

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Maybe your right... So as they came to me, should I have gone for some kino (other than a handshake)?

I saw some old fat guys rubbing the dancer's asses, it was funny, but they got what they wanted I guess
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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