"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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strip club a good date?

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I've gone out with this chick 3 times now. She is bi sexual and so she likes women a lot too. I was thinking about taking her to a strip club this weekend. Do you think that would be a very good date? She wants to have this chick she knows get together with us soon. I'm down with that! Talk about making a mans fantasy :D.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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thekcguyme

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Naw I wouldn't do that. I always take a set amount of cash and leave the rest at home.
 

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I'm a frequent strip club goer, and I can tell you that I have never EVER seen a guy taking a girl to strip club for a date.
 
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I am also a frequent SC visitor. Or at least I was. I really backed off since last year though.


Anyway, I've thought of taking a girl to one before. My idea was as a first date, whether she was bi or not! Just to freak her out. I wouldn't tell her where we were going, even. But that probably wouldn't be a good idea.



I have seen quite a few guys bring girls to strip clubs though. Usually it's a group of guys and a couple girls, although I've also seen older guys bring their wives or girlfriends, just the two of them.


If this girl is talking about having threesomes after three dates, then she would probably enjoy the trip.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I will probably do that then :D. I know I'll enjoy myself. I just hope I didn't wear her out after that last meeting. We had sex for almost 2 hours and that was the first time we had sex. I don't know if I will be able to top that. She said it was better than the fantasy she had of me in her dream.
 

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I've done it. Only buy lap dances for yourself, don't let her catch you drooling over some stripper, and of course a little alcohol always loosens things up. The girl I took was yelling out crazy things in bed that night, asking me to call her a wh0re and treat her rough.
 

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NICE! That's pretty much how this girl is. She will probably drool over the strippers before it do ;).
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Since, she is bi sexual I'd say its probably okay. But, a straight woman I would say no. Unless, you been together for awhile.

Though, BibleBelt had a good experience.. :)
 
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