"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Strike while the iron is hot!

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I have seen a lot of threads on this forum where someone is trying to get a girl, and he has been back and forth with her for weeks, months even. They have a detailed account of every IOI and IOD, and they are trying to figure out if she likes him.

The thing is they could have found out for themselves by just going for it. By this point they probably have possibly been friendzoned and/or have oneitis. One of the best pieces of advice I have gotten on this forum is "Assume the sale." You think she likes you? Ask her out right then. If you're on a date with her, assume she wants your touch; assume she wants to kiss you. This keeps you in a good frame of mind, which will improve your inner game.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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