"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Strike Out Swinging, Not Looking

Young Juan

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In HS baseball, our coach made us run the field AFTER the game if we got a strike three looking and didn't attempt to swing at the ball. He tallied how many times you did it per game and had to do that many laps around the field after the game and the next 2 practices.

The point of the idea was that sometimes you'll get hits you don't expect or you'll make contact, hit a foul ball, extend the at bat, wear down the pitchers arm, and eventually get a hit, a walk, or even a homerun.

We won 2 state titles and 3-peated as American Legion champs.

Apply this analogy to approaching. When I see a chick, the 3 second rule applies. It's like a pitch, I need to go and swing asap. Baseball is very much a game of instinct. The human eye isn't good enough to accurately track the ball from the mound to plate. Nonetheless, instinct knows where its going. The more you practice, the better you are. If you don't practice batting, you won't even be able to hit a fastball down the middle consistently, nevermind a change-up or curve. Practice letting your gut lead the way and perfect your swing.

Lots of rookies in the league. Go to the cages and step your game up. HolL@
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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