"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Stretch marks.. normal?

arcilitei34

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Ever since i've been weight training in october, i've noticed that there has been a huge build up of stretch marks near my armpits, on my right arm it looks like a rash or a flesh eating disease broke out in a 1 and a half inch length on my bicep side, close to my shoulder. And on my left arm im noticing the same stretch pattern forming in the same place, but its far less, it's composed of a few dots, and a stretch mark in between my left pec and shoulder that looks like I got stabbed. Are these stretch marks normal? how do I get rid of them?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Fatality

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Yeah they're normal it means you are growing fast. They're basically permanent but they will fade and be less noticeable as time passes. They're your battle scars wear them with pride soldier.:cheer:
 

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After reading that, i felt butterflies in my stomach! thanks for even motivating me more and other people hopefully who had strechmarks ~_-
 

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Good job man!

Check out basketball players. Especially the college ones that have just put on alot of muscle mass in the past couple of years. They have spider webs shooting up from their arm pits onto the front of their shoulders.

Also look at your lower and outer middle back. There might be some there too.
 
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