"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Stressing about college

Brighty

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I don't know where I want to go for college and I'm stressing out that where-ever I go my parents will have to forfeit an arm and a leg. I kind of want to be a film maker, but at the same time I want to be well off and I feel like I'll have a low chance of making it big as a film maker, not because I don't have good ideas, but because of the competition.

Basically I have three options here:

Option A: Go to Saint Louis University - great school and it'll be my first time living in a different city. Tuition is normally $40,000 but I get around $29,000 off. This is great, but parents are unsure about how they're going to pay for it. If I go, I'll end up with around $20,000 in student loans by the time I graduate. On the plus side, I'm sure I could land a great paying job there if I don't try and become a film maker.

Option B: Go to Indiana State University - close to home, although not as good of a school. Its definately cheaper.

Option C: Go to Ball State University - close to home, is renown for film and stuff, and is a little bit more expensive than ISU.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Cry For Love

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dont worry inflation will wipe your loans out, just get a fixed rate long one, they are printing like crazy in a few years youll be glad for making a good deal
 

Wiesman44

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Cry For Love said:
dont worry inflation will wipe your loans out, just get a fixed rate long one, they are printing like crazy in a few years youll be glad for making a good deal
oh really ? Inflation is gonna wipe out his loans ? Oh goody. Maybe inflation will wipe out my mortgage while its at it.
 

Da Realist

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It's not the school a lot of times; it's your drive and talent that will make you. I'd say go to the cheap school for undergrad, do good, and then go somewhere else for grad school if you're planning on going. Other than that, just be creative and make movies on your own.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Flyer

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if you are set on becoming a film maker. why do you need uni?

IF you want to get into accounting/law/finance/business type firms and work your way up - you need a good uni name and WORK YOUR ASS OFF to get good grades to make the cut in the initial screening of your resume.
 

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Just go to community college and save your money. And don't think you can actually get a job with just a bachelor's. Most people can't. I know a receptionist with a law degree. If your major is liberal arts, a PHD will get you in the door at Appplebee's.
 

MisterMcGee

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That because most people dont leave school with a skillset or productive mindset. Those who are skilled will get a job in whatever they want (or at least be competitive).
Also, NETWORK. My uncle can get me a job so long as I have a university degree, as can some buddies of mine in different industries.


And GO TO SCHOOL even if you plan on becoming a film maker or writer. Thats what I want to do, but I'm not being naive thinking I won't need to work in the meantime.
 

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MisterMcGee said:
And GO TO SCHOOL even if you plan on becoming a film maker or writer. Thats what I want to do, but I'm not being naive thinking I won't need to work in the meantime.
Correct but he is having difficulty on making a decision on which school to attend due to the costs and school quality. Bible Belt said it best he should just go to a community college because a film major doesn't warrant much more than community college.

A film major is pretty much a worthless major. You have to be crazy to get into huge debt by taking a film major at an expensive university. Your chances of making it big in the film industry are as good as me winning the lottery. You will probably be unemployed for months before getting your first job after graduation (unless you got connections, and you will probably end up in a job totally different from your degree).

If film is your passion then by all means go for it but there is no need to get yourself into crazy debt for a film major. In this day and age in the global depression we are heading into you might want to consider a major that can actually help you get a job.
 
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