"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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most likely a lot of guys here are more concerned with looks. Personally i am directly in the middle of the spectrum between strength and appearance. I saw a thread on bodybuilding goals regarding measurements and bodyfat...but what are your current strength stats...and future goals. Post whatever exercises you do regularly.

Current:
Deadlift 300 x 15
Bench Press 5 sets of 5 @ 240
Incline BP 225 x 5
Military Press 5 sets of 5 @ 155
Barbell Curl 150 x1

Goals:
Deadlift 400 x 15
Bench Press Max 400
Incline Max 315
Military Press max 225
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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current strength stats are OK, nothing special. i am much stronger then the average person but not a veteran bodybuilder.

i believe health comes first then aesthetics, never sacrifice health for looks. i incoorporate a strength week where i use 4-6 reps, and an endurance week where i use 12-20 reps to activate other muscle fibres plus cardio vascular and mental benefits along with my normal 2 week routine which is in the 8-10 rep range for hypertrophy.

i dont have specific strength goals, because i dont require superior strength in my daily life. nobody can see how much you lift when they look at you, if you are doing it for yoursel fine but the real reward is the mass youve gained and thats why i focus on hypertrophy and not strength. strength doesnt benefit you in reality, i value cardio over strength for health reasons.
 

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i agree that health is number 1. i have a strict diet, and i do cardio along with weightlifting. I believe that strength is as important as hypertrophy/size because when youre stronger, you feel stronger. When you feel stronger you have more confidence. and you know what confidence gets you.
 

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I cant be bothered going through my weekly workout and exercises... so i will use your exercises as a basis..

Current:

Deadlift 450 x 10 reps
Bench Press 330 x 8 reps
Incline BP 310 x 8 reps
Military Press 225 x 10 reps
Barbell Curl 150 x 8 reps
 

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holy hell dude. those are some awesome numbers. props to you and the work and time you put in the gym. :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Thanks for the compliment champ.

Just for the record, i am 5'8 and weigh 180
 

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Well guys,
I'm 6'1'' 173 pounds.
I currently bench 145 at 6. I want to be at 165 for 6 by thanksgiving. I have been increasing 5 pounds for 6 reps for about 3 weeks now. Think I can get there if i keep up my current workout?? I know you don't know it, try to judge by the progress I have made. BTW i have only gained 3 pounds total.
 

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Originally posted by dockta
Bench Press 330 x 8 reps
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Just for the record, i am 5'8 and weigh 180
Bench pressing almost double your body weight...I smell BS
 

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Im 6'0 or 6'1 185.

dockta could achieve these numbers through years of dedication. i wouldnt doubt it.

D'light-
You are doing exactly what is best. by increasing the weight each workout you are constantly getting stronger. i think you can definately achieve your goals by thanksgiving if you continue to increase the weight each session. good job bro.

Ian-
I do squat, but i alternate squat and deadlift cycles, because doing both reek havoc on my lower back. my last squat cycle i ended with 315 for 10.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Bench pressing twice your weight can be done.

Years ago when I was 120pnds my max bench was 220. Being able to bench almost twice your weight for 8 reps though, yeah, that's impressive no matter what your size.

That dude from the Partridge Family, the red headed guy...he was in Mens Health several years back. In the article on him they stated that he could easily bench OVER twice his weight several times. Don't remember the exact numbers but I remember thinking, "Goddamn!".
 

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Jimbo2k....... Do i really care what you think? Really? And what would i achieve by lying?

lifthard.... asked for some input, and i gave mine. Take it or leave it.

I am 25, and have been training since i was nearly 19... but, i dont need to justify myself to you.

Ian1983... yeah i squat, but like, lifthard, i also alternate my squats with my Dlifts.

Soma... thanks for the support.

Cheers Guys.
 
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