Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Strength... muscle type?

JaguarMike

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A friend of mine that plays D1 double A football has huge muscles that have fat in them, not overkill, but not fatless muscle like these roided out guys I see at the gym. He is just huge though.

What is a more efficient form of strength? "Marbeled" muscles, or heavily defined muscle with little fat? Hope Diesel responds to this.

*A visual of what I am talking about is Arnold in his prime (defined muscle), and a russian bear wrestler (more "marbeled" muscle).
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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MindOverMatter

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think about it.

Mike has 17 inch biceps with 9% bodyfat.
Rick has 17 inch biceps with 20% bodyfat.

obviously Mike will have more muscle tissue, as a large portion of Rick's 17 inch biceps includes excess fat, which Mike does not have.

as for strength, strength is not dependant on muscle size, but rather the density of the muscle. every big gym has at least one normal looking guy who can bench 300+.
 

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How do you get muscle size, and how do you get muscle density?
 

MindOverMatter

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different training methods, different rep ranges, different diet, etc.

check out some strongman forums.
 

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Originally posted by JaguarMike
\ Hope Diesel responds to this.
DIESEL isn't anymore.

Not saying there aren't people here that know their stuff, in fact, I would like to see some discussions between the new guys, and the old guys... (DIESEL, Industry, Wheelin&Dealin) although it would just turn into flaming i think

they all knew their stuff, just in different sections.

MOM, alex, double, lifeforce, gav... there's a lot of info around, and people with experience.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Warboss Alex

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You people really should stop worrying about muscle density and fast/slow twitch fibres and concentrate on proper form, progressively heavier and a solid diet .. do this consistently for six months and I promise you, the only thing you'll be worrying about is a new wardrobe ..
 

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Incidentally, powerlifters have the thickest (strongest) muscle I'd say - watch a super heavy powerlifter diet down to 8% bodyfat and he'll blow bodybuilders out of the water.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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MindOverMatter

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Originally posted by Warboss Alex
Incidentally, powerlifters have the thickest (strongest) muscle I'd say - watch a super heavy powerlifter diet down to 8% bodyfat and he'll blow bodybuilders out of the water.
yeah but how many dumbbell kickbacks can he do bro.
 

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Originally posted by MindOverMatter
think about it.

Mike has 17 inch biceps with 9% bodyfat.
Rick has 17 inch biceps with 20% bodyfat.

obviously Mike will have more muscle tissue, as a large portion of Rick's 17 inch biceps includes excess fat, which Mike does not have.

as for strength, strength is not dependant on muscle size, but rather the density of the muscle. every big gym has at least one normal looking guy who can bench 300+.
Thats CNS efficency, not density.
 

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MindOverMatter was right about different rep ranges. When you do low reps(5 or less) with alot of weight you train your nervous system to be more efficient(like Heizen said), which means you'll get more control over your muscles, which means more power. With low reps you won't get much muscle gain though. If you do a bit higher reps (+- 8-12) you'll primarily be developing muscle mass, but offcourse also some strength. It's best to vary your reps though, also with even higher reps because this will train every organelle in your muscle cells, causing them all to grow, instead of just some of them which are used with a certain amount of reps.

About JaguarMike's question: I don't think you can really tell how strong someone is by the amount of muscle they have. Bodybuilders get made fun of by powerlifters alot, because the powerlifters feel that the bodybuilders are only developing useless muscle, purely for show. Even though some of these bodybuilders may look way more muscular, it's very possible they're weaker than a well trained powerlifter who doesn't look so muscular. It's because he's trained his nervous system, and thus has more control over his muscles, which makes him stronger. The amount of fat around the muscle also doesn't matter as long as it isn't there instead of extra muscle tissue. So neither "Marbeled" muscle, or heavily defined muscle is a more efficient form of strength than the other.
 
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