"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Street Smarts
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Street fighting is ugly and dirty, and should be avoided at all costs. If you want to know if you are any good at fighting, then pick a martial art or train mma in a regulated and supervised environment. You will find that the guys who are the real bad-asses are quiet and humble people who would walk away from a street or bar fight. They just laugh the other guy off and the other guy almost always senses the confidence and lack of fear, and his own self-preservation instinct will kick in and make him back down.
Someone Much cooler
Senior Don Juan
everywomanshero
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95 times out of 100 an actual fight will not break out. Most guys just don't want to feel disrespected. SOme guys are so bad off the only way they can feel any sense of power at all is to try intimidating other guys. These men are irrelevant lil weenies. They have no women in their lives, they own no hotels, bars, etc of interest. Basically, they have nothing to offer you or anyone else, so what they want is not important sad to say.
Just ignore them. If worst comes to worst call the police. Spend time fvcking women & making money, not worrying over who can win a fight.
SickAgain
Senior Don Juan
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
You get street smarts by experience, real life situations, where you make mistakes, and DO NOT repeat those mistakes, thus increasing your
"street IQ". You guys talk about fighting? No, you wanna be that guy who people already respect, who no body fvcks with in the first place.
-is the best response you can give me? A guy who says "how do I develop street smarts, so people won't pick on me". Bro you're more hopeless than I thought... if that's even possible in your case.
oh sosuave... the people you see here
but dawg listen, my response won't tell you anything, or anyone's response, because you have to get out there and try what's good, whats bad, and what's just... "a man's gotta do what a man's gotta do". Up until a year or two ago, at times people would make rude comments, I would feel bad, etc. Now no one even looks at me wrong, and yet I have alot of friends.
Definitely hit the gym to begin with, and eat alot of healthy foods. No steroids, at least not yet.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
The Deacon
Senior Don Juan
50 Cent said: