Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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suavesuave

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Im starting to think all this street pickup doesn't work.

Cause just think about it if I guy randomly comes and talk to you. You will freak out. Like last time a black guy approached me and asked me for money. That was scary man.

So I think it doesnt work. It's just some kind of **** someone made up.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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kebman

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suavesuave said:
Im starting to think all this street pickup doesn't work.

Cause just think about it if I guy randomly comes and talk to you. You will freak out. Like last time a black guy approached me and asked me for money. That was scary man.

So I think it doesnt work. It's just some kind of **** someone made up.
How come I have pulled chicks from the street then? :p
Have you ever TRIED it, or do you just make assumptions on your own prejudiced experience from being approached by people you are scared of?
 

obobobob

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Its free. If you get nothing it doesn't matter because you invested next to nothing. Unlike say taking a girl out on an expensive date and then learning she won't sleep with you.
 

AKA FLEX

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I've gotten laid off of it plenty of times. Your closing ratio won't be as high as it is when you're at a social gathering or when a friend introduces you, but if you approach enough chicks on the street, some of them will convert to lays..... unless your game is just really weak.
 
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