"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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suavesuave

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Im starting to think all this street pickup doesn't work.

Cause just think about it if I guy randomly comes and talk to you. You will freak out. Like last time a black guy approached me and asked me for money. That was scary man.

So I think it doesnt work. It's just some kind of **** someone made up.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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kebman

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suavesuave said:
Im starting to think all this street pickup doesn't work.

Cause just think about it if I guy randomly comes and talk to you. You will freak out. Like last time a black guy approached me and asked me for money. That was scary man.

So I think it doesnt work. It's just some kind of **** someone made up.
How come I have pulled chicks from the street then? :p
Have you ever TRIED it, or do you just make assumptions on your own prejudiced experience from being approached by people you are scared of?
 

obobobob

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Its free. If you get nothing it doesn't matter because you invested next to nothing. Unlike say taking a girl out on an expensive date and then learning she won't sleep with you.
 

AKA FLEX

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I've gotten laid off of it plenty of times. Your closing ratio won't be as high as it is when you're at a social gathering or when a friend introduces you, but if you approach enough chicks on the street, some of them will convert to lays..... unless your game is just really weak.
 
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