"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
street approach tips?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
So, needless to say, you can't be afraid to make and hold eye contact a little longer than normal with any hotties around
DonJoseCantosie
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Now imagine a stuck up girl, she's probably stuck up because some guys who approached her didn't do it right, now imagine if she didn't get approached barely anymore/hit on...she'd freak out and would want to feel attractive again(A female's worst fear is to not be wanted)...but since we got the knowledge of how to approach a girl...we can do it successfully. Its what they want and will remember most.
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Snow Plowman
Master Don Juan
Voice is key and so is Eye contact (As other guys already replied about)
Also use the MAGICAL TAP to open. You get instant attention. With those three things alone you can go far.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.