"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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strechmarks =/

Morphiex

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do you guys ever get strechmarks ?

I got these strechmarks on my biceps and up to my shoulders , and cuz of that i compleatly stoppd working out...
is there a way to get these strechmarks to be less noticble ?
and what should u do to make shure u never get them again ?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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isotope

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i got them too, dont konw how to get rid

i would suggest lose a little weight as you gain muscle, that way you lose fat and the skin doesnt have to stretch so much

also i heard that rubbing cocoa butter on your skin will prevent stretch marks, but not get rid of them


personally i stopped caring. i just accepted the stretch marks and if some girl doesnt like them, screw her
 

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i wasent fat at all when i got them i was like 16 years old and I made a bet with my friend that i could do over 1000 bicep curls and i did 1240 took me 40 minutes with 5 kg weights .... non sto!!

i was amazed that i could do something like that... and the result of that was that i couldnt move my arms for like three days and these strechmarks came forward...
but ive accepted them

but what im wonderin is cuz my skin is so tight around my biceps what can i do to make it loose so that i can build up more muscle there ?
 

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they make a new kind of cream that supposedly gets rid of them but not over night.

im not sure of the name but you could google it, may even have to refer to some materinity sites.

thing is, stretch marks are caused by your skins elasticity, and you inherit that. even if a cream helps, sooner or later, if you are lifting you are going to get more.

maybe take it a little slower and try not to get giant arms over night.

the more gradual you build those muscles, the less chance of the skin tearing causing the stretch mark.


and guess what, after a little time, they are no longer purple but turn a soft color and they are not as noticable as you think .
 

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dude...in bodybuilding...they are considered a good sign. means youre growing bigger!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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