"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Strat for approaching a 5 set

Rocko

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Hey guys, I was out at the pub tonight and I did manage to get a kiss close off a HB7.5 who worked there, but I was curious about something. There was this 5 set in the bar that came in and sat at a table far away, now, 4 of the girls there were 6s (this is after 1L of Carlsberg btw) and there was one HB8.5. I felt kind of intimidated, so I decided to stick with the girl i was with. Has anyone come across this situation, and do you guys have any advice for these situations where it is just you and 5 girls? Should I just ask questions about certain things I notice about them and go from there, or totally be Confident and suave.

Thanks for the help
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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BacardiGuy

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Can't say I have a lot of experience with a large set like this, but what I would do is either go over, address the group, and "borrow" the HB8 for a quick chat (or a dance if there's a dancefloor), or start gaming one of the friends and see how long it takes for HB8 to get jealous ;)
 

Distant Light

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Ever heard of Mergin Sets and using the girl you had as a pawn. The same group theory stuff goes for big sets like that too. If you've done 3sets then just run game exactly like that except make sure all the 4 obstacles are disarmed.
 
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