"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I've been noticing a lot lately...
After I game a chick, and then finally get with her... makeout, bj's sex whatever... I just feel sick to my stomach, ****in nauseous and don't want anything to do with the chick anymore.
Like the longest I've ever kept one broad around is three months..
I can't explain it, it sucks... maybe I'm just messed in the head lol.

Anyone else ever expierence this?
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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This happens a lot to Christians as the religion creates a guilt complex around sex.

Also it could happen to guys with an inferiority complex where they at one point in their life absolutely pedastalized women as goddesses due to their feminist brainwashing and training.

To actually engage in healthy sexual behavior with a chick makes a guy like this feel guilty because how can he be worthy of experiencing such joys with his better? With a goddess???

That or perhaps you have morality crew type tendencies where you are guilty over gaming a girl into bed and it manifests itself by disgust that causes you to get rid of the girl afterwards thus leaving your (in your mind) negative past gaming actions behind you. In a morality crew sense you may feel you used some form of deception or deceit to land the girl in the first place and thus you do not deserve her.

So which of these applies to you or do you think your root cause for this feeling is something else?
 
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Im not a christian and morality isn't really the issue...

I was however once a huge afc... so what you say there could be it, thing is I never considered them goddesses, I was just a fat kid who got made fun of a lot.

I was also diagnosed with clinical depression and severe anxiety about seven years ago, I was given drugs which I refused to take and never sought treatment again and for the most part have felt fine.

But I definitely don't feel I don't deserve women...Maybe I'm just disgusted how easy they are... and most really are, and that makes me want nothing to do with it. Hard telling... It's something that's recently manifested itself over the past year...
 
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Maybe you are gay (not that there is anything wro...)

OH, never mind. Too many Seinfeld re-runs.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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Or maybe an ancient mummy put a curse on you for stealing his treasure.
 
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Crash after the high. Your body is releasing certain hormones, and when you don't feel an emotional bond with the girl, it feels awkward.

I feel this myself after a hook-up. If it bothers you that much, start looking for a steady girl...it'll feel better. Just don't become "addicted".
 
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squirrels said:
Crash after the high. Your body is releasing certain hormones, and when you don't feel an emotional bond with the girl, it feels awkward.

I feel this myself after a hook-up. If it bothers you that much, start looking for a steady girl...it'll feel better. Just don't become "addicted".
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That probably makes a lot more sense than the ancient mummy treasure theory.
 
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