"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I've been noticing a lot lately...
After I game a chick, and then finally get with her... makeout, bj's sex whatever... I just feel sick to my stomach, ****in nauseous and don't want anything to do with the chick anymore.
Like the longest I've ever kept one broad around is three months..
I can't explain it, it sucks... maybe I'm just messed in the head lol.

Anyone else ever expierence this?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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This happens a lot to Christians as the religion creates a guilt complex around sex.

Also it could happen to guys with an inferiority complex where they at one point in their life absolutely pedastalized women as goddesses due to their feminist brainwashing and training.

To actually engage in healthy sexual behavior with a chick makes a guy like this feel guilty because how can he be worthy of experiencing such joys with his better? With a goddess???

That or perhaps you have morality crew type tendencies where you are guilty over gaming a girl into bed and it manifests itself by disgust that causes you to get rid of the girl afterwards thus leaving your (in your mind) negative past gaming actions behind you. In a morality crew sense you may feel you used some form of deception or deceit to land the girl in the first place and thus you do not deserve her.

So which of these applies to you or do you think your root cause for this feeling is something else?
 
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Im not a christian and morality isn't really the issue...

I was however once a huge afc... so what you say there could be it, thing is I never considered them goddesses, I was just a fat kid who got made fun of a lot.

I was also diagnosed with clinical depression and severe anxiety about seven years ago, I was given drugs which I refused to take and never sought treatment again and for the most part have felt fine.

But I definitely don't feel I don't deserve women...Maybe I'm just disgusted how easy they are... and most really are, and that makes me want nothing to do with it. Hard telling... It's something that's recently manifested itself over the past year...
 
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Maybe you are gay (not that there is anything wro...)

OH, never mind. Too many Seinfeld re-runs.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Or maybe an ancient mummy put a curse on you for stealing his treasure.
 
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Crash after the high. Your body is releasing certain hormones, and when you don't feel an emotional bond with the girl, it feels awkward.

I feel this myself after a hook-up. If it bothers you that much, start looking for a steady girl...it'll feel better. Just don't become "addicted".
 
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squirrels said:
Crash after the high. Your body is releasing certain hormones, and when you don't feel an emotional bond with the girl, it feels awkward.

I feel this myself after a hook-up. If it bothers you that much, start looking for a steady girl...it'll feel better. Just don't become "addicted".
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That probably makes a lot more sense than the ancient mummy treasure theory.
 
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