"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"Strange Wingmen"

TonyBaloney

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Guys,

Need an honest opinion here.

I feel incredibly guilty about this but its true.

So, i'm 39, and my old school wingmen have long departed to betaville....

I'm holding out - still much success on the ladys front although the battle is harder.

So i prefer to have a companion of arms with me on my quest - the trouble is, my main one is my employee who doubles as a drinking buddy too.

Only problem is, Jeff, lets call him that, is a bit odd. He's suffered from depression to the point of needing meds. He won't say boo to a goose...is basically painfully shy, and due to the meds, very overweight. He's possibly (no joke) a 40 year old virgin....

Although in some respects, it leaves me in the limelight, I just wonder if my street cred goes down when females view me with him???

I do feel bad knocking him like this, but its just the truth....

He is a decent guy, and i like him, but it is what it is...........
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TonyBaloney

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The thing is though, this guy DOES NOT TALK and IS NOT INTERESTED IN POON.....

I thought years ago he may be gay, so i said for him to have a look at my laptop, as there was this e bay thing i wanted, but instead a had some gay sh it on. He was horrified. He is 10000% beta ASEXUAL, nut job.....

But....he's company on missions.........
 
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