"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Ok, so I met this girl. She's... Different.
She hates guys that hit on her. You're a DJ? To bad. She exclusively date's AFC's for long periods of time. Doesn't like the "Player personality" Or anything like that. Just an honest, down to earth guy who is basically a nice guy.

I'm trying to pull off a "Nice guy, bad guy" blend. I'm a nice guy when you need it. Movie dates, dinner, etc. But a bad guy when that is needed, IE Bedroom, hanging out, etc...

What do? I'm stumped.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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LOL weird..
:D

She probably just likes bossing AFCs around.

Try the 'nice guy bad boy' blend ie don't forget to be sexual.

P.S.- I would stay away!

-AK
 
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ameya905 said:
LOL weird..
:D

She probably just likes bossing AFCs around.

Try the 'nice guy bad boy' blend ie don't forget to be sexual.

P.S.- I would stay away!

-AK
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Eh. She tends to be very sexual with her boyfriends, so thats a bonus. Aaand, all here friends are DTF and for FWB, so it's a huuge bonus.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dr.LASR said:
Eh. She tends to be very sexual with her boyfriends, so thats a bonus. Aaand, all here friends are DTF and for FWB, so it's a huuge bonus.
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K then give it a shot bro. Good luck!
 
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K then give it a shot bro. Good luck!
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Thanks? I'm just wondering if anyone has encountered this before. I'm sure someone has.
 
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She exclusively date's AFC's for long periods of time.
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Ego boost. She likes having AFC's who will put her on a pedestal, idolize her and boost her ego. I wouldn't be too surprised if she hasn't secretly cheated on her AFC boyfriends with some alpha males.

What should you do? Don't be one of her pawns. I think the best way of catching her attention is to differentiate yourself from the rest, also known as the AFC bunch. She'll wonder why you aren't like the other monkeys who praise and compliment her at everything she does. I believe that will make you attractive towards her.

All the best and hope it works out!:up:
 
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Be "AFC" in ways like: act gentlemanly (hold open doors, etc), text her first, listen to her problems and try to be funny to cheer her up, pay a lot of attention to her.

Be "DJ" in your ability to escalate sexually without hesitation. Appear to have the utmost confidence in the bedroom (and know your way around half-hidden sexuality in social situations)

This girl just needs a guy to "cling" more than other girls. This means she has issues of her own that cause her to cling to guys. She will likely become overattached and sometimes annoy you. Beware of that, but also those girls are sometimes very good ones.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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BPH said:
How do you know she's sexual with these guys?
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We got in a pretty heated talk, she talked about his d*ck, and what not, ended up admitting mine was better. Also, I know some of her ex's
 
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