"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ok, so I met this girl. She's... Different.
She hates guys that hit on her. You're a DJ? To bad. She exclusively date's AFC's for long periods of time. Doesn't like the "Player personality" Or anything like that. Just an honest, down to earth guy who is basically a nice guy.

I'm trying to pull off a "Nice guy, bad guy" blend. I'm a nice guy when you need it. Movie dates, dinner, etc. But a bad guy when that is needed, IE Bedroom, hanging out, etc...

What do? I'm stumped.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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LOL weird..
:D

She probably just likes bossing AFCs around.

Try the 'nice guy bad boy' blend ie don't forget to be sexual.

P.S.- I would stay away!

-AK
 
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ameya905 said:
LOL weird..
:D

She probably just likes bossing AFCs around.

Try the 'nice guy bad boy' blend ie don't forget to be sexual.

P.S.- I would stay away!

-AK
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Eh. She tends to be very sexual with her boyfriends, so thats a bonus. Aaand, all here friends are DTF and for FWB, so it's a huuge bonus.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Dr.LASR said:
Eh. She tends to be very sexual with her boyfriends, so thats a bonus. Aaand, all here friends are DTF and for FWB, so it's a huuge bonus.
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K then give it a shot bro. Good luck!
 
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ameya905 said:
K then give it a shot bro. Good luck!
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Thanks? I'm just wondering if anyone has encountered this before. I'm sure someone has.
 
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Dr.LASR said:
She exclusively date's AFC's for long periods of time.
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Ego boost. She likes having AFC's who will put her on a pedestal, idolize her and boost her ego. I wouldn't be too surprised if she hasn't secretly cheated on her AFC boyfriends with some alpha males.

What should you do? Don't be one of her pawns. I think the best way of catching her attention is to differentiate yourself from the rest, also known as the AFC bunch. She'll wonder why you aren't like the other monkeys who praise and compliment her at everything she does. I believe that will make you attractive towards her.

All the best and hope it works out!:up:
 
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Be "AFC" in ways like: act gentlemanly (hold open doors, etc), text her first, listen to her problems and try to be funny to cheer her up, pay a lot of attention to her.

Be "DJ" in your ability to escalate sexually without hesitation. Appear to have the utmost confidence in the bedroom (and know your way around half-hidden sexuality in social situations)

This girl just needs a guy to "cling" more than other girls. This means she has issues of her own that cause her to cling to guys. She will likely become overattached and sometimes annoy you. Beware of that, but also those girls are sometimes very good ones.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BPH said:
How do you know she's sexual with these guys?
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We got in a pretty heated talk, she talked about his d*ck, and what not, ended up admitting mine was better. Also, I know some of her ex's
 
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