"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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STRANGE Situation-Need to get out my head

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This is one of the most craziest thing going on in my head. I am 42 married and having an affair with a 37 yr old married woman. Been with her for an year now and I have actually caught her kissing another guy as well.Problem is I am crazy about her even tho I have other HB 10 for hooks up plus my wife :):). I have no intention to marry her or anything else but I cant get her off my mind.

She plays the usual hot and cold game and knows I am crazy about her. when we first started hooking up she is use to be all over me but now I feel I have become an AFC and running behind her. WE TEXT EVERYDAY TOO which is kinda messed up too and I want to stop it.

Can anyone suggest the best way to make her come to me or even better it continues just as a friends with benefit .

I have tried and tried but feeling liking crap for being crazy about one dumb *****
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Peaks&Valleys

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cool story cool-io
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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