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STRANGE QUESTION, very STRANGE

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Okay...so, I will not make this long and boring, lol

My relationship to women is kind of strange, strange as in, confusing.
I have the ability to go out and get women attracted to me, sometimes the results are great, sometimes they are not, but if it came down to a life or death situation, I could go out and get some attraction.

But I dont know what it is, but on the inside, I have this very disturbing feeling toward women. I don't know if its the rejections I get that has caused this, or is it something else.

When I try to understand it, most of it is very bent-up inner rage and anger. When I look at it, the foundation of it is like I am very pissed off at women, for not being women.

It's like, I am a great guy in life. But I know that does not get a pvssy wet, so throughout my life I have developed a great charming suave style, that gets the pvssy wet! But, for some reason, I feel as though I am underrated. Where, women don't give me the deserved praise that I deserve. Deserve as in, I just got you fvckers hot and bothered, show me all your warmth and love!

Now, I am not some "pretty boy" on here talking about how good I look and why women dont like me, no........that is not what I am saying, I am far from a "pretty boy," if I had no personality I would have no pvssy buddy!

I am saying that I have the don juan style and when I am really "on," women find me very attractive! But....they don't seem to give me what I am looking for which is a lot of praise and warmth. I know this sounds kinda of gay, but I am not talking about cuddling.... but the praise and thanks for being a hot guy and also praising me for the successes I have had in life, I mean, isn't that what a woman is supposed to do? Support her man! Now I will admit, at first I was not a man, I had go grow and learn like everyone else....but now I am and I am still unsatifised! Guys I am sorry, but pvssy is just not everything. You guys stress out too much over trying to please her and get her stupid azz wet, I can give two fvcks about how HOT AND BOTHERED she is!....I am like a client of a sales person, WITFM...what's in it for me!

From this, it's where I get this attitude, "Why can't women just be women!" What happened to the caring attitude! I mean, that's what a woman is........why don't they do that anymore? I am tired of going out and getting women all hot and shyt, and they don't give me what I want, fvck that! And they can keep their panties on because that shyt is gettin old! BE A WOMAN.

Again, I am no AFC on here who can't get laid, I am pass that stage. But I guess I will invent a word and call myself an FDJ, A Frustrated Don Juan who is disappointed in women. I personally, have not gone out in some while because I cannot get this sick feeling out of my stomach, if I even think about going after a girl I feel this sick azz feeling. Strange, I believe strongly, that if something is wrong in your life its because of you! But the reason I am posting this is mainly because of that. Hell I walk in and leave with Ons and numbers, I get them attracted all the time......I dont honestly see anything wrong with me, so if it is them........hahah, I can't ever be gay but I might decide to be alone. Hell I usually have more fun alone then with women anyway.
 

flippinfreak

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Heh, there are a large number of FDJ's

I know for sure, that this feeling is something inside of you, I had in me for a while, then it passed. It passed without telling me what the problem was, or how I could fix it, it just swept over me like a storm, and left a better me in the wake of it...

I thought it was one of three things.

I am not showing the women enough for them to praise me with, so I started to brag, in a subtle manner. I got people coming up and telling me I was beautiful "inside and out" they told me that if I wasn't helping people out the way I am now, that my life would be a hundred times better.

That wasn't what I was looking for, I enjoy being dumped on and having the challenge of not knowing if somebody cared for my actions, or for my words.

I thought it was that I didn't tease girls enough. SO every day I went out and choose the tiniest things to rag on them with, eve speculating about things that may ave happened in the past just to hear them say noooooo. Girls would begin to react differently around me. It's like they were putting up a wall, they'd avoid me unless they were dressed perfectly and their hair was done...

That wasn't what I wanted, I hated waiting until 10pm at night before my old 'friends' came to the bar. I never did get anything out of it except the cringes and soft punches from the girls...

Last, I thought it was just me, wanting praise...

I never really did figure that one out;)
 
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Just to add a little before I go off to work....

Cold approaches, being the life of the party, anything involved with meeting women....I absolutely love doing. I have a ball when me and my wingman go out and get women, I usually do it very suave and don juan style, with an add-in of my unique personality, I mean, its absolutely fun.

But after doing it, it's like I am wasting my time, because women don't give me what I want. Its like...how many times are you going to go sit through a sporting event when everytime you go you don't get what you came for? Pvssy is not enough, I want her to be a woman to me....for some reason, they dont do that anymore. So........I have stopped going out and giving the town a great time. Do I miss it, hell yes! But do I feel as though I am wasting my time, just making others happy and not fulfilling my own needs, hell yes!
 

mango

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Don Juan you're a complete idiot...I hope you do not have any sisters and some man thinks she should act this way toward him.
 
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