"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Strange problem, kinda clueless!

DannyM

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Ok i number closed a girl when i was shopping two weeks ago and we had been txting back and forth constantly! She lives in the town next to me and got the train over here friday night and we went out to a bar for drinks...

Anyway we got on really well...went back to my place, played monopoly, she stayed the night and we ended up having sex! i woke up to her making me breakfast in the morning and she seems more into me than anyone ive ever met, Anyway we went for a walk in the park the next day and she keeps talking about future plans for the both of us and we arranged to meet again on Monday! I walk her to the train and she looks noticably sad that she is leaving and says she doesnt want to go!

Two hours later i get a txt saying she can't stop thinking about me...then i txt her about 8pm saying "thanks for a nice night, doinga nything exciting this evening?" and she doesnt txt back at all????lol.

I get another txt from her the following day at 11:30am saying Good morning sweetheart, how you doing today? *mwah* xxxx" so i reply back telling her im going wrestling training this afternoon and ask her what shes doing......7 hours later and no reply?, so i call her to arrange monday and she doesn't answer!

Any idea whats going on? she seems to have amazing intrest levels and then suddenly just wont respond to txts? if anyone thinks this is classic case of over reaction on my part then feel free to say either.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alex DeLarge

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That's very strange indeed. Most times when sh1t like this happens I just move on from the girl. She might be testing your patience? Just keep your cool with her.
 

garruk

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DannyM said:
Ok i number closed a girl when i was shopping two weeks ago and we had been txting back and forth constantly! She lives in the town next to me and got the train over here friday night and we went out to a bar for drinks...

Anyway we got on really well...went back to my place, played monopoly, she stayed the night and we ended up having sex! i woke up to her making me breakfast in the morning and she seems more into me than anyone ive ever met, Anyway we went for a walk in the park the next day and she keeps talking about future plans for the both of us and we arranged to meet again on Monday! I walk her to the train and she looks noticably sad that she is leaving and says she doesnt want to go!

Two hours later i get a txt saying she can't stop thinking about me...then i txt her about 8pm saying "thanks for a nice night, doinga nything exciting this evening?" and she doesnt txt back at all????lol.

I get another txt from her the following day at 11:30am saying Good morning sweetheart, how you doing today? *mwah* xxxx" so i reply back telling her im going wrestling training this afternoon and ask her what shes doing......7 hours later and no reply?, so i call her to arrange monday and she doesn't answer!

Any idea whats going on? she seems to have amazing intrest levels and then suddenly just wont respond to txts? if anyone thinks this is classic case of over reaction on my part then feel free to say either.
you did nothing wrong here. theres probably something else to it that you would have no way of knowing.

dont overthink it, sometimes things just happen.

good luck bro.
 

oneboy21

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You kind of acting needy in your texts. back off a little bit and keep the power in your hands. let her work for you
 
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