"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Strange problem, kinda clueless!

DannyM

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Ok i number closed a girl when i was shopping two weeks ago and we had been txting back and forth constantly! She lives in the town next to me and got the train over here friday night and we went out to a bar for drinks...

Anyway we got on really well...went back to my place, played monopoly, she stayed the night and we ended up having sex! i woke up to her making me breakfast in the morning and she seems more into me than anyone ive ever met, Anyway we went for a walk in the park the next day and she keeps talking about future plans for the both of us and we arranged to meet again on Monday! I walk her to the train and she looks noticably sad that she is leaving and says she doesnt want to go!

Two hours later i get a txt saying she can't stop thinking about me...then i txt her about 8pm saying "thanks for a nice night, doinga nything exciting this evening?" and she doesnt txt back at all????lol.

I get another txt from her the following day at 11:30am saying Good morning sweetheart, how you doing today? *mwah* xxxx" so i reply back telling her im going wrestling training this afternoon and ask her what shes doing......7 hours later and no reply?, so i call her to arrange monday and she doesn't answer!

Any idea whats going on? she seems to have amazing intrest levels and then suddenly just wont respond to txts? if anyone thinks this is classic case of over reaction on my part then feel free to say either.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Alex DeLarge

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That's very strange indeed. Most times when sh1t like this happens I just move on from the girl. She might be testing your patience? Just keep your cool with her.
 

garruk

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DannyM said:
Ok i number closed a girl when i was shopping two weeks ago and we had been txting back and forth constantly! She lives in the town next to me and got the train over here friday night and we went out to a bar for drinks...

Anyway we got on really well...went back to my place, played monopoly, she stayed the night and we ended up having sex! i woke up to her making me breakfast in the morning and she seems more into me than anyone ive ever met, Anyway we went for a walk in the park the next day and she keeps talking about future plans for the both of us and we arranged to meet again on Monday! I walk her to the train and she looks noticably sad that she is leaving and says she doesnt want to go!

Two hours later i get a txt saying she can't stop thinking about me...then i txt her about 8pm saying "thanks for a nice night, doinga nything exciting this evening?" and she doesnt txt back at all????lol.

I get another txt from her the following day at 11:30am saying Good morning sweetheart, how you doing today? *mwah* xxxx" so i reply back telling her im going wrestling training this afternoon and ask her what shes doing......7 hours later and no reply?, so i call her to arrange monday and she doesn't answer!

Any idea whats going on? she seems to have amazing intrest levels and then suddenly just wont respond to txts? if anyone thinks this is classic case of over reaction on my part then feel free to say either.
you did nothing wrong here. theres probably something else to it that you would have no way of knowing.

dont overthink it, sometimes things just happen.

good luck bro.
 

oneboy21

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You kind of acting needy in your texts. back off a little bit and keep the power in your hands. let her work for you
 
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