"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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strange pain on my head?

picard

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I have an intense pain on the left side back of my head. It happens occasionally a few times in a year. It isn't a headache when I have a flu or cold. This pain is localized in small region. It hurts when I touch the skin on back of my head in that area. I never had head injury at all. I don't ride motorbike. I have been taking tylenol and aspirin without no effectiveness.


Does anyone have this similar pain on their head?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dante3214

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Intense you say?


Seriously, if it's intense, then you should goto a doctor of some sort.


But I can say that it's not stress related, because I.. think that stress only induces headaches, skin problems, and migraines.

Not external pain (of the head at least).
 

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I consulted my doctor today. He said that I have allergic reaction to ingredients in some foods. My headache pain is localized on the skin. He prescribed bendaryl. This is kind of strange for allergy. Have you guys heard anything like it?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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