"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SmackinIsaiah

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Haven't posted in awhile, but today I heard something that kind of peaked my curiosity, and i just wanted to share.

A friend of mine found out through another friend that her friend went on some dates turns out to be my ex. Apparently they met on myspace, and I haven't a clue whether or not anything physical happened, or if it was just hanging out, whatever. Anyways, apparently he asked her out, and she turned him down, saying she didn't want a boyfriend.

Long story short, I find out that she mentioned something about a pet to him when he asked this question (bought her one last year), and that apparently my name has been brought up quite a few times from her lips. Saying that I called, emailed, whatever. This was coming from my friends friend, who says the myspace dude is quite familiar with my name.

Anyways, I've let her initiate pretty much any remote contact whatsoever, so I was just wondering what you guys made of this "situation."

Thanks
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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