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Master Don Juan
I haven't been here for fvcking ever, since i've learned how to solve my own problems for the most part. All but this:
I closed a chick 5 days ago. (I would rate her about an 8) I got the number, and I put it aside for a few days like I usually do. So far so good. My custom is normally to wait 6-7 days, (not to put on an act or anything, I am legitimately busy) but I jumped the gun tonight b/c I will see her in class tommorrow and it seems like a good idea to cal lbefore i see her in person again. (5 days is enough wait time, IMO) .
I got her on the phone, and I start about 1-2 minutes of meaningless small talk.
I then said something to this effect:
"Listen, I was setting up my weekend schedule and I was planning on doing something fun on friday night and I want you to join me."
At this, she says that she already has a BF.
I was surprised at this. I told her that that was cool and I would see her in class tommorrow, and I cut the convo and hung up.
Now, here's my question:
Why the fvck did she give me her number if she already had a BF? is she just d!cking with me and wasting my time?
My close technique is something like this:
" [meaningless convo here] .... I had a fun time talking with you. Perhaps we could continue this conversation later. Give me your number and we can pick this up some other time."
I have used this on different chicks for several years now, and always with good results. I believe that this approach removes all doubt as to my intentions, but in a subtle way.
My second question:
Should I have implied something different in my approach? what made her give me her number if she had a BF already? Should i change anything? Make my intentions more clear? Anything?
Please advise.
I closed a chick 5 days ago. (I would rate her about an 8) I got the number, and I put it aside for a few days like I usually do. So far so good. My custom is normally to wait 6-7 days, (not to put on an act or anything, I am legitimately busy) but I jumped the gun tonight b/c I will see her in class tommorrow and it seems like a good idea to cal lbefore i see her in person again. (5 days is enough wait time, IMO) .
I got her on the phone, and I start about 1-2 minutes of meaningless small talk.
I then said something to this effect:
"Listen, I was setting up my weekend schedule and I was planning on doing something fun on friday night and I want you to join me."
At this, she says that she already has a BF.
I was surprised at this. I told her that that was cool and I would see her in class tommorrow, and I cut the convo and hung up.
Now, here's my question:
Why the fvck did she give me her number if she already had a BF? is she just d!cking with me and wasting my time?
My close technique is something like this:
" [meaningless convo here] .... I had a fun time talking with you. Perhaps we could continue this conversation later. Give me your number and we can pick this up some other time."
I have used this on different chicks for several years now, and always with good results. I believe that this approach removes all doubt as to my intentions, but in a subtle way.
My second question:
Should I have implied something different in my approach? what made her give me her number if she had a BF already? Should i change anything? Make my intentions more clear? Anything?
Please advise.