Strange game setup...It's like a no-win situation for me!

[nismo-4]

I've noticed that damn near every time I get a beautiful girl interested in me and ask her out, she says she has a boyfriend. Yet given the same scenario, if I DON'T ask that beautiful girl out, I find out she would not have turned me down at all! What gives? Either way, you don't get the girl. Anybody been in the same situation and has any insight? Thanks.

 

[Zazenth]

That’s odd.
………………

Actually when I think about it very very carefully, I think I know why.

Your actually one of the rare kind of guys who asks a girl out without proving your worth. When I mean worth I mean, like making out, going on group dates etc just to show her what a great guy you are and how much fun you can be.

A girl would automatically decline any offer if she were uncertain of you.

Anyway that’s my lucky guess.

 

[Klaus]

Are you sure you are setting up sexual barriers to peak
her interest with you in the first place?

Its one thing for a woman to be interested in you, but
another for her to think of you in a sexual light instead
of as being a friend.

Try making your sexual presence known before you
attempt to initiate the date, one line wont do.

If thats not the case then you are probably focusing
too hard on the one girl, cut your losses and move on.

The boyfriend thing has never stopped me, I havent
been with many women but they've all had boyfriends