"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Cougar10033

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This seems to be an ongoing problem... I dont know if i come off as shady or what but im a pretty outgoing guy and dont seem to seedy... I have began to notice when i am talking with a girl i just met and its clear she is interested they always get flaky and bring up something like does your gf know your out, or you must have a gf... and when ever i tell them i dont they still do not believe me. It happened last night with 3 different girls....wtf causes this and how comes my friends never get drilled like i do ?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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shouldn't have answered directly. Why not repond with "How do you know?..you must be stalking me" or "Yeah, I have a g/f. you should watch out she packs a mean punch. She been known to knock girls out who try to steal her man". Point is you keep answering directly, you avoid the question by being sarcastic or question there motivates.
 
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Maybe you just come off as "pvssy-whipped" and they're thinking "only men with girlfriends act this way"

Honestly, it sounds like she's swooning to me. I've only ever gotten the "You MUST have a girlfriend" from a girl when she meant "You are so damn sexy, I refuse to believe that you are single."

She might also be worrying that you're a player. Girls worry about that all the time, or so girls have told me.

Just bust on her for not believing you have a girlfriend, saying she must like you if she wants to know about her so bad. Then tell her that she's shooting herself in the foot, because calling a man who values the integrity of his word a liar is no way to seduce him.

But, you know, in a funny way.
 
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