Strange frustrating trend

[Cougar10033]

This seems to be an ongoing problem... I dont know if i come off as shady or what but im a pretty outgoing guy and dont seem to seedy... I have began to notice when i am talking with a girl i just met and its clear she is interested they always get flaky and bring up something like does your gf know your out, or you must have a gf... and when ever i tell them i dont they still do not believe me. It happened last night with 3 different girls....wtf causes this and how comes my friends never get drilled like i do ?

 

[illmatic20]

shouldn't have answered directly. Why not repond with "How do you know?..you must be stalking me" or "Yeah, I have a g/f. you should watch out she packs a mean punch. She been known to knock girls out who try to steal her man". Point is you keep answering directly, you avoid the question by being sarcastic or question there motivates.

 

[BrotherAP]

Maybe you just come off as "pvssy-whipped" and they're thinking "only men with girlfriends act this way"

Honestly, it sounds like she's swooning to me. I've only ever gotten the "You MUST have a girlfriend" from a girl when she meant "You are so damn sexy, I refuse to believe that you are single."

She might also be worrying that you're a player. Girls worry about that all the time, or so girls have told me.

Just bust on her for not believing you have a girlfriend, saying she must like you if she wants to know about her so bad. Then tell her that she's shooting herself in the foot, because calling a man who values the integrity of his word a liar is no way to seduce him.

But, you know, in a funny way.