"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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strange feelings about this girl.. advice please

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alright ive been dating this girl for a month, she was just easy piece for me for 7 months while I was pursuing another girl (which didnt end up working out n I really liked her) the one reason I didnt want to get with my current girlfreind was the fact taht she ****ed 5 guys and I was a virgin. I ended up ****ing her but every time I think of the guys taht have ****ed her I get this ****ed feeling I dont even know waht it is its like im disgusted with her or somthing... maybe im just jealous I donno whenever I think about the dudes shes ****ed iwanna dump her. do you guys feel like this about your girlfreinds past sexual encounters or am I alone on this? I need help sorting this **** out its really getting in the way of things with her n it really bothers me:cuss:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Interesting subject to bring up... I felt this way for awhile about one girl. Somehow though I got over it and even lost my virginity to her. I felt this way years ago after I had lost my kissing virginity to a girl that had kissed plenty of guys. Things with her and I didn't work out too well, but I got over the feeling by conquering my own virgins later on.

The only thing you can really do in your situation is accept it or end it. Since you already were able to overcome this and have sex with her yourself I think that says there is a chance for you to move past this weird feeling.
 
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yea.. she kind of pressured me into having sex with her n I was pretty drunk so I just hit her up raw dog lol. and to add to it ive heard around my school taht shes banged more people than shes told me.. but she insists shes telling me the truth
 
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I think it is normal though for some people to think about it. I don't but I dont really have experience with anybody whos been with lots of guys. Hope you get over it though. Think, they must not have been that great if shes with you now. Thats not an insult. I mean you must be doing ok. I'm not great at advice, but I hope I helped a bit.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If you think that's bad, think about everything your mother's lips have been touched, kissed, licked, whatever, the next time she kisses you on the cheek. Guarantee it will make your current problem seem a whole lot smaller.
 
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Theres nothing wrong with wondering about other guys she's f@cked or thinking about it. But, you have to get over it. She is with YOU now. (hopefully). The past is the past; you cant change it.

One day girls will be wondering about all the other girls you banged in the past :)
 
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