"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Strange change ...

Leuven

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About a month ago, it was a really crappy evening so I went home at about 2 A.M.

At the place were my motorcycle was standing, there were 3 chicks. 2 of them were about hb4, the other was about a 6. Not really high but I started talking to her and her friends. 2 hours later she asked if I would mind standing next to her for a picture. Then she asked my email so she could mail me the picture ( her words ) I gave it and the weeks after we chatted a couple of times. She is a very sweet girl, good humor, not bad looking and lives about 2 miles from me. Friday she gave me her cellphone without me asking for the number. I send her an sms today asking her to have a drink this weekend. She didn't respond and this evening she said on msn that she don't want to have a drink with me. Why did she gave me her cellphone? Does I even stand a chance or just forget about her and think of it as a good practice? Was she playing a game all along? Or is this some kind of sh*t test?


Sincerely
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She just said she thinks it isn't a good idea to have a drink with me.

She didn't mention any stupid excuus like she had already something to do. Or already dating someone



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