"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Strange change ...

Leuven

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About a month ago, it was a really crappy evening so I went home at about 2 A.M.

At the place were my motorcycle was standing, there were 3 chicks. 2 of them were about hb4, the other was about a 6. Not really high but I started talking to her and her friends. 2 hours later she asked if I would mind standing next to her for a picture. Then she asked my email so she could mail me the picture ( her words ) I gave it and the weeks after we chatted a couple of times. She is a very sweet girl, good humor, not bad looking and lives about 2 miles from me. Friday she gave me her cellphone without me asking for the number. I send her an sms today asking her to have a drink this weekend. She didn't respond and this evening she said on msn that she don't want to have a drink with me. Why did she gave me her cellphone? Does I even stand a chance or just forget about her and think of it as a good practice? Was she playing a game all along? Or is this some kind of sh*t test?


Sincerely
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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She just said she thinks it isn't a good idea to have a drink with me.

She didn't mention any stupid excuus like she had already something to do. Or already dating someone



Sincerely
 
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