"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Strange Bootcamp start

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StoneCold

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HI guyz


I just started Bootcamp and I need a explanation

iM on the Hi thing and i gota say its been Strange

I went down Da shopping area/mall and around campus alone to start off with

and in 2 hours i didnt do 1 Hi I have a great Body and was wearing a bomber jacket open zipped to make me look even bigger
anyway i am kinda attractive and get alot of younger women checking me out

Im really good with eye contact and smilling

anyway in 2 hours i passed a lot of women and no Hi,s i tryed to pump myself up and still just smiles and eye contact

Then I met one of my mates planning to go down the Gym but ended up not going

now the strange thing is when i was with my mate i did 10 Hi,s in under 15 mins

explain to me or give advice on why being with my mate enhanced my results I appreciate it
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Maybe you are more comfortable with your mates around? I know when my mates are around me I feel more comfortable/confident.

Deep
 
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