Stranded...

[Higherbeing]

Hey guys,

I've been reading around here for a while now, but never really posted here before... (i think i did like a year or so ago) But now I've run into a problem that I dont know how to overcome really... About 9 months ago I made the mistake and moved to across the country to be with my girl friend at that time(From Wash DC, to San Diego CA). Fortunately that relationship ended, and I'm glad its over... Yet unfortunately it now has left me stranded in a city I pretty much know nothing about, and dont know a soul out here other than my roommate, who, well, doesnt seem to be an outgoing person. I've gone to a couple parties with him in the area, but it seems like I have to force him to call around to find parties, and I force him to go with me... Its starting to bug me that I'm sitting around the house 90% of the (10% at school/work) having nothing to do. This is one of the first times of my life where I want to be social, I want to go out and have fun, and most importantly, I want to meet new girls. I've tried talking to a few females out here, but it seems like I dont quite fit in yet, and they dont give me the time of day(Which i dont understand, I personally think I got everything going for me, i look good, i go to school, I'm starting my career). I dont know what to do, where to look for girls (school is NOT an option, i go to ITT Tech, no girls there) and meet new people.... I'm not a bar type of person, or club type of person unfortunately...

 

[MooseGod]

Good question...a lot of the guys around here suggest joining some kind of extracurricular activity that you enjoy. That way you'll find more like-minded chicks too.

 

[j0n024]

Yes maybe check the local paper they should have activites since it's close to the holidays. I mean there should be some sort of local gathering happening sometimes, I mean down here on the first week of Dec we have the lighting of the Christmas tree's so I'll be going to that to check out the talent. Just look around maybe when your out of school walk around town and look for something to do. Good luck.

 

[Skel]

Join a softball/baseball/flat football team. Join a gym. Take classes at the local school. Take salsa lessons. Etc etc

 

[DonRaul]

ITT is fine. Making guy friends can be a great resource to getting women. Finding guy friends that like to go on the weekends can save you tons of time. Their friends become your friends etc...