"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Straightup asnwer on metabolism

wezzy

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I'm 6 ft and 210, I lost 25 lbs in the last 8 months, but as soon I eat anything I gain 5 lbs. I workout 5 or more days a week,with short intense cardio. I have an office job that I sit on my a$$ all day.

When I was younger, up to about 35 years old I could eat anything and not gain a pound.

Is there anything I can do to increase my metabolism?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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eat 6-8 small meals per day instead of 3 big meals it will increase metabolism

edit: i think u are just looking for a quick fix ? if u want to lose much fat than u have to lift weights because muscle mass increases metabolism damn much and watch what you eat of course
 

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eat small meals, 6-8 per day

drink 2-3 glasses of green tea a day.

No high-GI carbs about 4-5 hours before going to bed and take it easy on the low GI ones at this time.
 

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I do lift weights with my workout.

But. I've been only eating twice a day. Morning and Afternoon. Will try smaller meals a few more times a day.

I've been watching eating after 3pm and seldom do. Only on dates and stuff.

GI I had to do a search that, I guess its "Glycemic Index" Found a couple good sites on my search.

Do you know if there is any relationship between the lack of sunlight and weight gain?

I live in NE PA and this time of the year I go work in the dark and only have an hour of daylight after work.

Thanks for your help
 

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OK, bear in mind some of that 25lbs was muscle.

Muscle needs fuelling even at rest. Weight training as an integral part of you weight maintenance will help by adding some muscle.

Also over your diet period your body got used to less cals.

Make sure one day a week you up the calories, this helps prevent calorie adaption.

Keep on counting cals and see your current diet as a long term healthy diet rather than short term one.

With aerobic exercise 4x30mins and 2x WT a week you body should find equilibrium.

Add high water content veggies to all you meals helps alot, so I'm told.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You need to try to eat at least 5 times a day, if not try around 6-7.

I see one of your biggest problems is the fact you say you try not to eat after 3pm.

That means your body is starving until what, 6-7am.

3pm till 6am is a long time for your body to starve. Your body has to store everything because it feels like its never going to eat again.

Thats why splitting meals up is a common and good way to go. Your body doesnt feel like your starving it. Your metabolism will def speed up because its getting a consistent amount of nutrients into its system.

Eating twice a day at say 7am and 3pm only makes your metabolism slow down. It needs to store everything because its not getting enough of anything.

Drink plenty of water throughout the day as well.
 
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