"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Straight from the mouth of 3 teenage girls, what they really think about men

Who Dares Win

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Ok so I happened to have a very honest conversation with 3 teenage girls which live close to me, they often see me taking home girls and after finding out Im a laid back guy which despite being kinda sexist is open minded and has knowledge about dating and sex life, started being more open and open to me.

Anyway we had this conversation today where they told me about this guy
(two of them just started university while the third one is attending the last year of high school) that they all know, well this guy happens to be at the top of the dating ladder.

According to them (indirectly from their words) he is attractive because he is:

1)goodlooking, tall and muscular (while still being 19)

2)does a cool job after school (baywatch) and do many sports

3)he is very popular but despite that he sticks only to his girlfriend

They behave around him the same way a nerdish guy would behave near pamela anderson while dealing with many other average guys they shown many times uninterested attitude and sometime borderline cruel behaviour.

At that point I wanted to find out deeply what was going on and asked one of them if she would accept a fvck buddy relationship from him, even before she finished replying the other two said yes...

But I was not satisfied yet and asked if he asked them for a night of sex all togheter what they would say...well at first they had to fight with their anti-slvt shield but then they hinted that they would.

Had many conversations like this with them, and its clear to me that they dont live sexuality as a fairy tale or romantic experience, one of them had a fvck buddy altought she didnt like his personality, even made fun of him as a person while the young one doesnt mind flirting with guys she has no intention to date only for advantages like tickets to concerts and so on.

I guess a conclusion is not necessary and this simple fact can be an example of what is going on in terms of hypergamy and how it works, keep in mind this 3 girls are young and good looking, not some ugly girl with low self esteem or options.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Word... teenage girls are just as shallow, douchey, cliquey, and retarded as teenage guys. They're OBSESSED with looks & status... it runs their entire lives. They're also horny and all up in the bad boy game. Definitely not innocent or "nice".

Gotta watch for the older girls who possess the same maturity and mentality and lifestyle as these retards.

But definitely, that fairytale **** does NOT exist.
 

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Who Dares Win said:
At that point I wanted to find out deeply what was going on and asked one of them if she would accept a fvck buddy relationship from him, even before she finished replying the other two said yes...
That is because they are slvts.

Most girls these days are open or closet slvts. They should really be ashamed of themselves.
 

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They get that mentality through being brainwashed by TV, the movies and their friends and parents. You don't get that societal peer pressure status mentality out of the womb, you are conditioned that way.
 

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The guys here would prefer that young girls were attracted to:

1) Neckbeard
2) types 132 wpm with one hand
3) knows all major porn stars by name
4) over 1000 posts on sosuave
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Zarky said:
The guys here would prefer that young girls were attracted to:

1) Neckbeard
2) types 132 wpm with one hand
3) knows all major porn stars by name
4) over 1000 posts on sosuave

Funny you mention neck beard!! LOL!! I had a friend in California that walked like the Hunchback of Notre Dame, was 20 lbs overweight, smelled and had a neckbeard that meshed with his chest hair where you didn't know where one started and the other ended. He would wear V neck shirts and low riding collars to show it off!! It looked like he had and opossum living in his shirt!! He wondered why he never got laid and was never alone with girls at any point. Smart guy, but never understood how naïve a guy can be with this going for him and the zero results. He never changed and would frustrate himself by being rejected by very attractive girls.
 

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I used to live with a this guy in college.

- Overweight
- Showers once a week
- WoW 24/7
- Keeps a 20 Gallon trash bag in his room for fast food
- Absolutely no style
- Complete neckbeard
- Social circle consisted of typical comic book collectors

When you pass by his room, it's smelled awful. The only time he showers is when his GF visits or he visits his GF. This chick was an HB8. I was in a relationship at the time with an 8 as well, but every time I look at my GF, I'm thinking FVCK I could do better.

This was before coming to SoSuave. But looking back, that guy had SOLID game. Aloof, natural confidence, doesn't give a sh!t attitude, does what he wants.
 

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Zarky said:
The guys here would prefer that young girls were attracted to:

1) Neckbeard
2) types 132 wpm with one hand
3) knows all major porn stars by name
4) over 1000 posts on sosuave
Ha Ha. Nice post count, btw. :kick:

Personally, I always attracted younger girls since they're shallow and retarded, and I had the goods to attract them. Spent a LOT of time with the younger crowd - only to hate them all. Dunno why all the generalizing... just stating the facts. :confused:
 
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