Most women don’t feel safe with men anymore.
We lie to ourselves and pretend we don’t want a dominant guy, because that makes us weak as women.
The truth is-
women deep down do want to surrender.
There’s nothing more liberating than to experience a healthy man who you can trust enough, to completely let go with.
So why does it seldom happen?
Because men like this don’t exist anymore.
We’ve been brainwashed to believe “traditional” gender roles are somehow wrong.
There’s truth in that, yes, women haven’t always had it easy.
There’s truth in that, women haven’t always been respected. Or equal. Or taken seriously. Or given the same opportunities as men.
But, there’s also truth in that…
we never needed to do everything that men can do in order to be happy, whole, and fulfilled.
We just needed their support.
Today’s age of men think that “support” is being passive, agreeable, and feminine, so women can instead take charge.
A lot of men simply standby and don’t speak their truth, get assertive, or step into their power because they don’t want to be seen as “that guy” with toxic masculinity who doesn’t respect women.
They’re wounded, and therefor can’t handle rejection. They desperately want to fit in. So much so, they’ll sacrifice their own sacred masculine energy, a gift from God, to fit in with the PC climate.
Most men, today…
are beta.
& most women, today…
have been conditioned to think that that’s safer.
Oh, but how we have been fooled.
“Why do so many women date a**holes?”
Because at least narcissistic men are assertive.
Controlling? Manipulative? Soul shattering?
Also yes.
But just a taste of that dominating force from a man is something women crave so much today, they’ll find themselves in toxic trauma bonds w/ guys who don’t actually love them.
So, you tell me…
why do you think women don’t feel safe?
Because they’re either with beta dudes, who can’t protect them and they know it.
Or narcissists, who feed off their feminine energy for their own selfish gain.
Relationship after relationship,
disappointment after disappointment,
heartbreak after heartbreak…
why should we trust men?
In today’s age, it’s safer to simply become men ourselves.
But then again,
that’s why so many women aren’t happy.
We’re constantly trying to be masculine, because there’s so few men left to allow us the safety to surrender and be who we really are inside:
Feminine.
A healthy man will use his assertion for good, not evil.
A healthy man will know when it’s time to take charge, and know when it’s time to sit back.
A healthy man will be present, protective, and listen to his woman.
A healthy man won’t use his power to manipulate you.
He’ll use it to empower you.
Unthreatened by your strength, unwavered by your divine, radiant, and powerful feminine energy.
Masculine energy isn’t about manipulating women,
it’s about providing them with a safe container to be feminine again.
Know the difference.
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