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Master Don Juan
iqqi..add teri hatcher to that list pls
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
There could be a lot of merit in what you are saying. Now that I think back when people were saying that to me it was when I was at work and acting ultra serious and of course I was way more introverted then than I am now. And now I get don't get the "you look older comments". People who I went to school with are always whining about getting older and I always say to them "that sucks, hope I never get old".STR8UP said:When I was younger people thought I was older too. I think it was more my personality than anything, but it's nice to be mistaken for being in your 20's when you are rolling up on 36. At least half of those chicks in the pictures are 21-26. Makes it easier to get along with the younger ones when you don't look TOO old.
lolFor men it is. Women....not so much.
I was WAAAAY too serious and introverted when I was younger. The social anxiety thing didn't help either.Ever onward said:There could be a lot of merit in what you are saying. Now that I think back when people were saying that to me it was when I was at work and acting ultra serious and of course I was way more introverted then than I am now. And now I get don't get the "you look older comments".
Sh!t man, I didn't even notice. I'll have to look at the pics again. Let me guess, "you're not just the hair club president, you're also a member"STR8UP said:I was WAAAAY too serious and introverted when I was younger. The social anxiety thing didn't help either.
Plus, through the miracle of modern hair "addition", I have a lot more hair today than I did when i was 21You guys forgot about that, didn't you? $175 can make a HUGE difference in a balding guys appearance!
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Lets put it this way.....I took the "do it yourself and save thousands while getting a far superior result than Hair Club" route.Ever onward said:Sh!t man, I didn't even notice. I'll have to look at the pics again. Let me guess, "you're not just the hair club president, you're also a member"![]()
Anyone here think ketostix thinks way too much about iqqi?ketostix said:Uh anyone else here think iqqi is annoying and superficial and probably fat and ugly and that's why she ignores any request to show her pic?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I was expecting you to look like Tim Meadows in “The Ladies Man”.ketostix said:OK I'm a little disappointed. I was expecting you to look like Brad Pitt.
There's some pretty goodlooking ladies in there. I thought the asian girl flashing her panties had a pretty good bod.
Yeah, that one, Terry Hatcher, Lea Thompson, and Charlotte from Sex in the City; I find all of these have something amazingly hot about them. But that's probably not the case for most other guys.joekerr31 said:i dont know why, but i've always thought courtney cox was hot (but objectively shes like an hb 7/8). im lucky, some chics that guys consider hb7's i think are hot as hell.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Yet MORE chicks I'm not attracted to! There's no way in hell I'm shallow, you should see some of my exes! What's wrong with me?Yeah, that one, Terry Hatcher, Lea Thompson, and Charlotte from Sex in the City; I find all of these have something amazingly hot about them. But that's probably not the case for most other guys.
I thought he would look like Vin Diesel. You know someone really alpha who types with Caps!I thought you were black TBH.
One of them is a model. She had her hair up in the pic, and again, it wasn't one of the better pics I have of her (I have one REALLY good one, hehe) but if you saw some of her modeling stuff you'd be surprised.realsmoothie said:I gots to say, Str8Up looks pretty much exactly what I figured he would.
And those girls, while not "model-esque", are definitely PRETTY and look NICE.
Good job, buddy.
Taking pictures with a lot of girls is different from actually pulling them. Of course it does increase his chances though.Ever onward said:Crikey I should definitely be pulling a lot better looking tail than I have been. I need to start giving myself more credit.
I thought you were the guy who posted some pics of you with longer hair a while ago. And said you were at a playboy mansion party or something.STR8UP said:Plus, through the miracle of modern hair "addition", I have a lot more hair today than I did when i was 21You guys forgot about that, didn't you? $175 can make a HUGE difference in a balding guys appearance!
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.